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When you say "I love you" do you mean it or are you trying to get into her pants? Furthermore, have you ever proposed to get into someone's pants? here's something interesting to think about; Someone that says "I love you" to get in someone else's pants is not only being dishonest, but doesnt know what they are doing. You see dropping the 3 big words is accellerating the "romantic" part of the relationship too far beyond the "attraction" phase and putting it into the "comfort" phase. A combination of attraction and anticipation is what generates the feelings that will get you laid. If you don't believe me just look at your past relationships. Ever wonder why you had sex more often towards the beginning of the relationship? There ya go. Another thing to think about is most people view these three words as a threat, or a "red flag" in the beginning of a relationship. This goes for men and women. People are getting smarter nowadays,and dropping the "L-bomb" too early in a relationship can be detrimental. Could mean that the person doesn't have a firm grasp on their emotions (which is why it poses such a threat). Anyway to answer your question, no, i have not yoused that to get into anyone's pants. Nor have a proposed. I guess im just boring... 
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When you say "I love you" do you mean it or are you trying to get into her pants? Furthermore, have you ever proposed to get into someone's pants? here's something interesting to think about; Someone that says "I love you" to get in someone else's pants is not only being dishonest, but doesnt know what they are doing. You see dropping the 3 big words is accellerating the "romantic" part of the relationship too far beyond the "attraction" phase and putting it into the "comfort" phase. A combination of attraction and anticipation is what generates the feelings that will get you laid. If you don't believe me just look at your past relationships. Ever wonder why you had sex more often towards the beginning of the relationship? There ya go. Another thing to think about is most people view these three words as a threat, or a "red flag" in the beginning of a relationship. This goes for men and women. People are getting smarter nowadays,and dropping the "L-bomb" too early in a relationship can be detrimental. Could mean that the person doesn't have a firm grasp on their emotions (which is why it poses such a threat). Anyway to answer your question, no, i have not yoused that to get into anyone's pants. Nor have a proposed. I guess im just boring...
DUDE your life has got to be beyond boring if you taper off sexually during a relationship. |
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When you say "I love you" do you mean it or are you trying to get into her pants? Furthermore, have you ever proposed to get into someone's pants? here's something interesting to think about; Someone that says "I love you" to get in someone else's pants is not only being dishonest, but doesnt know what they are doing. You see dropping the 3 big words is accellerating the "romantic" part of the relationship too far beyond the "attraction" phase and putting it into the "comfort" phase. A combination of attraction and anticipation is what generates the feelings that will get you laid. If you don't believe me just look at your past relationships. Ever wonder why you had sex more often towards the beginning of the relationship? There ya go. Another thing to think about is most people view these three words as a threat, or a "red flag" in the beginning of a relationship. This goes for men and women. People are getting smarter nowadays,and dropping the "L-bomb" too early in a relationship can be detrimental. Could mean that the person doesn't have a firm grasp on their emotions (which is why it poses such a threat). Anyway to answer your question, no, i have not yoused that to get into anyone's pants. Nor have a proposed. I guess im just boring...
DUDE your life has got to be beyond boring if you taper off sexually during a relationship. 97% of the time this is the case in relationships. I'm merely explaining what i have learned doing research and studying this stuff in college. I'm a bit of a geek so i become fascinated by things like sociology and psychology. Wasn't trying to talk about my own personal experience. If the sex never tapers off in your relationships cheers  But i highly doubt most people keep up with 3 or 4 times a day, every day, after they've been married for 10 years. Just a thought, but what do i know?
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I must say the man I am crazy about told me that he would not say it unless he meant it...and trust me, so far he has not
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When you say "I love you" do you mean it or are you trying to get into her pants? Furthermore, have you ever proposed to get into someone's pants? here's something interesting to think about; Someone that says "I love you" to get in someone else's pants is not only being dishonest, but doesnt know what they are doing. You see dropping the 3 big words is accellerating the "romantic" part of the relationship too far beyond the "attraction" phase and putting it into the "comfort" phase. A combination of attraction and anticipation is what generates the feelings that will get you laid. If you don't believe me just look at your past relationships. Ever wonder why you had sex more often towards the beginning of the relationship? There ya go. Another thing to think about is most people view these three words as a threat, or a "red flag" in the beginning of a relationship. This goes for men and women. People are getting smarter nowadays,and dropping the "L-bomb" too early in a relationship can be detrimental. Could mean that the person doesn't have a firm grasp on their emotions (which is why it poses such a threat). Anyway to answer your question, no, i have not yoused that to get into anyone's pants. Nor have a proposed. I guess im just boring...
You are amazing...marry me and I will take care of you forever! 
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I've heard "I love you" s that did not make my fly come undone. Guess they didn't say the spell correctly.
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Edited by
Drivinmenutz
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Fri 05/23/08 09:07 AM
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I must say the man I am crazy about told me that he would not say it unless he meant it...and trust me, so far he has not
Think about this. Part of the reason you are so drawn to him is the fact that he has not said it yet, and you want him to. Here is something to think about; anticipation is key when building excitement. To most women, it's also the key to infactuation. If you drop a few hints from time to time, and make sure they are subtle, the unsureness can be compelling. It's kinda like taking someone that is VERY thirsty. If you take a medicine dropper and drop a few drops of ice cold water on his or her tongue on a hot day, the person will desperately want more. In fact they will probably stay there. If you satisfy their thirst upon arrival not much is keeping them around. Do you understand what i am trying to say? I guess my reason for pointing this out is that most people don't know why they feel a certain way, and therefore they have a hard time controlling their feelings. Spend some time away. A few days or so. Hang out with other people. You need to detach, and the first steps are always the hardest. Get together with some friends and hit up some clubs or something. But get away from him until you lose your emotional dependency. |
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Edited by
Drivinmenutz
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Fri 05/23/08 09:10 AM
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"You are amazing...marry me and I will take care of you forever! "
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When you say "I love you" do you mean it or are you trying to get into her pants? Furthermore, have you ever proposed to get into someone's pants? here's something interesting to think about; Someone that says "I love you" to get in someone else's pants is not only being dishonest, but doesnt know what they are doing. You see dropping the 3 big words is accellerating the "romantic" part of the relationship too far beyond the "attraction" phase and putting it into the "comfort" phase. A combination of attraction and anticipation is what generates the feelings that will get you laid. If you don't believe me just look at your past relationships. Ever wonder why you had sex more often towards the beginning of the relationship? There ya go. Another thing to think about is most people view these three words as a threat, or a "red flag" in the beginning of a relationship. This goes for men and women. People are getting smarter nowadays,and dropping the "L-bomb" too early in a relationship can be detrimental. Could mean that the person doesn't have a firm grasp on their emotions (which is why it poses such a threat). Anyway to answer your question, no, i have not yoused that to get into anyone's pants. Nor have a proposed. I guess im just boring...
DUDE your life has got to be beyond boring if you taper off sexually during a relationship. 97% of the time this is the case in relationships. I'm merely explaining what i have learned doing research and studying this stuff in college. I'm a bit of a geek so i become fascinated by things like sociology and psychology. Wasn't trying to talk about my own personal experience. If the sex never tapers off in your relationships cheers But i highly doubt most people keep up with 3 or 4 times a day, every day, after they've been married for 10 years. Just a thought, but what do i know?
Well, two times a night and six times a day on the weekends, up until he started sleeping around. But then again we were only married for 3 years and dating for 6 |
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You are amazing...marry me and I will take care of you forever!
Who are you talking to? |
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I love you.......lets get naked!!
 
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I love you.......lets get naked!!
OK 
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"Well, two times a night and six times a day on the weekends, up until he started sleeping around. But then again we were only married for 3 years and dating for 6"
Well cheers to what you had before he started became a fool.
This is something very rare in relationships. |
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You are amazing...marry me and I will take care of you forever!
Who are you talking to? I was quoting without quoting. Trying to save space i guess. |
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I love you.......lets get naked!!
OK
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But it's just like IDK why do people say I love you and not really mean it?
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Well DrivenMeNutz....the things you point out make more sense to me than most anything i've read on these boards lately....especially what you say about anticipation....very insightful & you gave me much to think about....thanks for your words of wisdom
I must say the man I am crazy about told me that he would not say it unless he meant it...and trust me, so far he has not
Think about this. Part of the reason you are so drawn to him is the fact that he has not said it yet, and you want him to. Here is something to think about; anticipation is key when building excitement. To most women, it's also the key to infactuation. If you drop a few hints from time to time, and make sure they are subtle, the unsureness can be compelling. It's kinda like taking someone that is VERY thirsty. If you take a medicine dropper and drop a few drops of ice cold water on his or her tongue on a hot day, the person will desperately want more. In fact they will probably stay there. If you satisfy their thirst upon arrival not much is keeping them around. Do you understand what i am trying to say? I guess my reason for pointing this out is that most people don't know why they feel a certain way, and therefore they have a hard time controlling their feelings. Spend some time away. A few days or so. Hang out with other people. You need to detach, and the first steps are always the hardest. Get together with some friends and hit up some clubs or something. But get away from him until you lose your emotional dependency. |
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Honestly, I don't think its only men that can say "I love you" for sex. Sometimes I wonder if some of the women might say it so they don't feel guilty for having sex with someone? I look at it like this, I think you can tell how someone really feels. Words are very cheap, you have to go by their actions!!
I think down deep, you honestly know how someone feels about you. Sure its nice to hear those 3 big words BUT if it doesn't really mean anything to the person saying those words...I think the person hearing them, they should be able to realize those words spoken are untrue!! |
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Honestly, I don't think its only men that can say "I love you" for sex. Sometimes I wonder if some of the women might say it so they don't feel guilty for having sex with someone? I look at it like this, I think you can tell how someone really feels. Words are very cheap, you have to go by their actions!! I think down deep, you honestly know how someone feels about you. Sure its nice to hear those 3 big words BUT if it doesn't really mean anything to the person saying those words...I think the person hearing them, they should be able to realize those words spoken are untrue!! agreed....which is what i told miranda but she didn't listen |
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I must say the man I am crazy about told me that he would not say it unless he meant it...and trust me, so far he has not
Think about this. Part of the reason you are so drawn to him is the fact that he has not said it yet, and you want him to. Here is something to think about; anticipation is key when building excitement. To most women, it's also the key to infactuation. If you drop a few hints from time to time, and make sure they are subtle, the unsureness can be compelling. It's kinda like taking someone that is VERY thirsty. If you take a medicine dropper and drop a few drops of ice cold water on his or her tongue on a hot day, the person will desperately want more. In fact they will probably stay there. If you satisfy their thirst upon arrival not much is keeping them around. Do you understand what i am trying to say? I guess my reason for pointing this out is that most people don't know why they feel a certain way, and therefore they have a hard time controlling their feelings. Spend some time away. A few days or so. Hang out with other people. You need to detach, and the first steps are always the hardest. Get together with some friends and hit up some clubs or something. But get away from him until you lose your emotional dependency. I must say that you are very smart for a 25 year old guy!! I think this is the first time I can honestly say BY GOSH I THINK YOU GOT IT!!!
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