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We like bad boys. Maybe the challenge, the chase. Heck I don't know.... 
(spoken like a true woman  )
"we" does not apply. Please know you are speaking for yourself. I don't like "bad boys" or the "chase". I just want to spend time with a decent, intelligent person. You can keep the games for yourself. |
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when i read womens profiles, a lot of women put down that they want someone who dosnt play games or cheat , but then they go out and seek out people who play games and cheat over people who dont play games and cheat,it seems like they say one thing and do another , is it just me imagining this??.how do yall all think about this I think guys and gals are both guilty on this front. I find it funny when people put down the "normal" stuff as to what type of person they are looking for. You always see the following.... "Someone who is funny." "Someone who is not a jealous person." "Someone who will treat me right." "Someone who is nice" These are just a few examples, but my point here is that people say these things and then, more often than people admit, they go for the complete opposite. My theory is that this is something that has so many possible answers, but one common answer you always hear is, "Well, he/she seemed liked a nice person...at first.". Now. Why do women do this? Lord if you can find the one true aswer on this then please let me know. Take a look at my profile. You won't find a single I want or I don't want when it comes to a partner. What I can't stand in one man may be something that I don't even notice in another. Why should I limit myself from the get go? I prefer to get to know people and make my decisions later. |
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We like bad boys. Maybe the challenge, the chase. Heck I don't know....
(spoken like a true woman )
"we" does not apply. Please know you are speaking for yourself. I don't like "bad boys" or the "chase". I just want to spend time with a decent, intelligent person. You can keep the games for yourself. I was speaking "tongue in cheek". See the little ?
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when i read womens profiles, a lot of women put down that they want someone who dosnt play games or cheat , but then they go out and seek out people who play games and cheat over people who dont play games and cheat,it seems like they say one thing and do another , is it just me imagining this??.how do yall all think about this I disagree with what you said....i don't think women intentionally go out & cheat....i think you just haven't figured out how to hold on to your woman.....cause if she was liken you she wouldn't be looking....so stop blamin' & start flamin' yourself.... 
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when i read womens profiles, a lot of women put down that they want someone who dosnt play games or cheat , but then they go out and seek out people who play games and cheat over people who dont play games and cheat,it seems like they say one thing and do another , is it just me imagining this??.how do yall all think about this I disagree with what you said....i don't think women intentionally go out & cheat....i think you just haven't figured out how to hold on to your woman.....cause if she was liken you she wouldn't be looking....so stop blamin' & start flamin' yourself....
 I think you should re-read his question.
We like bad boys. Maybe the challenge, the chase. Heck I don't know....
(spoken like a true woman )
I will not stay in this part of the "we" because for me, if a realtionship does not form as naturally and uncomplicated as a good friendship then the realtionship will not last. Why bother playing games when you should be getting to know one another? The problem with this friendship foundation is if a guy waits too long to make a move on a girl he is interested in then he will wind up on her "friends list," or the "I don't think of you that way" list. Granted, this isn't universally the case but being "the friend" is a serious invitation from Mr. Foot to Mr. Bullet and not a solid policy unless one has a LOT of patience and is willing to let a lot of candidates slip away. It's embarassing how many times I've found out after the fact (through mutual acquaintances, etc.) that girls were just waiting for me take things forward and I was too stupid to realize I was taking things excessively slow to nobody's benefit. I'm realizing that when I am interested in somebody it is very important that I clearly show it and not assume I know whatever pace she is comfortable with. If I don't do this then I risk appearing disinterested. Of course, there are situations where people are really good friends and eventually find more in each other, but that's another animal. |
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