Topic: what do you think about...
Max_Darkling's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:33 PM
All problems do have a solution but sometimes the solution is worse then the problem its self

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:33 PM
Walker, were you speaking of a specific situation going on with you, or did you just happen to use that as an example?

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:33 PM

so if there are somethings that we cannot change.
how hard is the process of acceptance?





hard

Max_Darkling's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:36 PM

so if there are somethings that we cannot change.
how hard is the process of acceptance?


that would depend on the problem and what all is at stake

IamMewhoRU's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:37 PM
isn't there multiple choice DAMNIT! grumble

DOH! :angry: I need another scantron ohwell

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:38 PM

Walker, were you speaking of a specific situation going on with you, or did you just happen to use that as an example?

just an example.
i mean time ago some family members passed away because of other illness, and i was so young to understand the idea of letting go.

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:40 PM
I see. Sorry didn't mean to turn this into a thread about death/cancer.


Yes depending on the situation sometimes there are solutions. I guess I am just one of the ones that don't believe that is always the case.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:41 PM

I see. Sorry didn't mean to turn this into a thread about death/cancer.


Yes depending on the situation sometimes there are solutions. I guess I am just one of the ones that don't believe that is always the case.

I'm with you in that one.
That is why I believe in the process of acceptance, and as a consequence the healing nature of the process of letting go.

nonchalantwendy's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:43 PM


Walker, were you speaking of a specific situation going on with you, or did you just happen to use that as an example?

just an example.
i mean time ago some family members passed away because of other illness, and i was so young to understand the idea of letting go.



unfortunatly that is something we have no controle over and these are stepping stones in our lives to make us better people........

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:44 PM

...this statement:

"a problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution to it. Therefore, I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a problem."


A problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution...I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a PROBLEM...whoever said this is an idiot.

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:44 PM
You said it correct when you said the "process of acceptance" and the "process of letting go".

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:45 PM
I can't actually say I am a "better person"

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:47 PM


...this statement:

"a problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution to it. Therefore, I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a problem."


A problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution...I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a PROBLEM...whoever said this is an idiot.


I'm the biggest idiot then.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:47 PM

I can't actually say I am a "better person"

why?

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:50 PM


...this statement:

"a problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution to it. Therefore, I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a problem."


A problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution...I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a PROBLEM...whoever said this is an idiot.

this is the kind of stupidity that pisses me off.
I mean it's ok to think an statement is idiotical, but a thinking mind should say why he/she thinks such a statement it's a stupidity.

scttrbrain's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:50 PM
Edited by scttrbrain on Tue 05/20/08 08:53 PM

so if there are somethings that we cannot change.
how hard is the process of acceptance?



If you can't change it...why worry about it? I mean if it can't be changed; the question to me would be "how important is it anyway"?
Kat

Damnit. There I go again; not reading the whole thread before I post.

Well, it certainly doesn't work under those circumstances.
Sorry Miguel.

Kat

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:52 PM



...this statement:

"a problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution to it. Therefore, I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a problem."


A problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution...I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a PROBLEM...whoever said this is an idiot.


I'm the biggest idiot then.


Don't refer to it as a problem if that is the beginning statement, problems don't always have solutions some never will. Some things are completly out of the realm of control for humanity as a whole, there is nothing that can be done about them. But they still exist as problems.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:53 PM
thank you, u see is not too hard to think a little bit more than the usual.

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:53 PM


so if there are somethings that we cannot change.
how hard is the process of acceptance?



If you can't change it...why worry about it? I mean if it can't be changed; the question to me would be "how important is it anyway"?
Kat

Damnit. There I go again; not reading the whole thread before I post.

Well, it certainly doesn't work under those circumstances.
Sorry Miguel.

Kat


It could be Very important

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/20/08 08:54 PM



...this statement:

"a problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution to it. Therefore, I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a problem."


A problem is not a problem if there is not a possible solution...I should not worry about it if there is not a possible solution to a PROBLEM...whoever said this is an idiot.

this is the kind of stupidity that pisses me off.
I mean it's ok to think an statement is idiotical, but a thinking mind should say why he/she thinks such a statement it's a stupidity.



Also try not to jump on someone so quickly, I was waiting for your response. "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree" is another example of a complete idiocy, mainly because it fails to state facts and has no backing to its main statement. Oh, I'm stupid, sorry I shall shutup now.smokin