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why would you want this man anymore? I don't we broke up he wanted to monopolize my time, what little time i do have..would never have worked, but he took me great places, the shore, out to dinner, treated me great, just wanted me to give up my dream of school, |
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Hummm guess I'm just curious why has it taken you two months to get mad at her little late I think. To me this issue would have hit when it happened and then hell yeah I would be ticked. But two months later and no longer seeing the guy just too late in my book to let it get to me then. JMO ![]() Cause I just found out from him he told me, just like three days ago, when we were talking in depth about our issues.. |
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Hummm guess I'm just curious why has it taken you two months to get mad at her little late I think. To me this issue would have hit when it happened and then hell yeah I would be ticked. But two months later and no longer seeing the guy just too late in my book to let it get to me then. JMO ![]() Cause I just found out from him he told me, just like three days ago, when we were talking in depth about our issues.. And actually I have been mad, just haven't posted it here. |
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well it comes down to this
if she did as you say then you need to understand it happened she is that type of person either you will put yourself in the presence of such people or not but what you need to understand is that she is the type of person that will do such a thing but getting angry over it is letting the situation control you rather than you controlling the situation |
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yes, I would probably be mad- but if I wanted to keep her as a friend, I'd have to get over it...
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Sounds like they deserve each other. Stop being mad, you have better things to do. Don't bother with that girl, she's not your freind and any person guy or girl that would ask someone to stop persuing thier goals is an azz. Move on from all of it.
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why would you want this man anymore? I don't we broke up he wanted to monopolize my time, what little time i do have..would never have worked, but he took me great places, the shore, out to dinner, treated me great, just wanted me to give up my dream of school, |
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Edited by
adj4u
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Fri 05/16/08 02:07 PM
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i thought this was a question about the gf was i mistaken
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Edited by
MrWrongman
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Fri 05/16/08 02:05 PM
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Here is the situation, tell me if I should be mad or not, cause I am...was out one night with my girlfriend, clubbing as usual, I ask this guy to dance who was sitting at the bar, we danced and became quite interested in each other, however my female friend let it be quite known that she thought he was a great catch, he has money, which she likes, and his personality was quite nice. So he calls me and we set a date for the following night, which was Saturday at this other club we were all gonna meet at cause the band was going to be good. I get sick, could not go, my girlfriend does go, and come to find out later she kisses him and basically makes a play for him, he is not interested in her, and waits for me to get better, which I do. We date for about two months, we break up, won't go into reasons, not cause I don't like him but basically cause I can't give him the time he needs, cause I work two jobs and go to school at night. Even though it did not work out between us two, do I have the right to be mad at her for trying to take him from me at the get go? I am mad, but should I be? Dump that biotch, she aint no frined!!!!! |
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Here is the situation, tell me if I should be mad or not, cause I am...was out one night with my girlfriend, clubbing as usual, I ask this guy to dance who was sitting at the bar, we danced and became quite interested in each other, however my female friend let it be quite known that she thought he was a great catch, he has money, which she likes, and his personality was quite nice. So he calls me and we set a date for the following night, which was Saturday at this other club we were all gonna meet at cause the band was going to be good. I get sick, could not go, my girlfriend does go, and come to find out later she kisses him and basically makes a play for him, he is not interested in her, and waits for me to get better, which I do. We date for about two months, we break up, won't go into reasons, not cause I don't like him but basically cause I can't give him the time he needs, cause I work two jobs and go to school at night. Even though it did not work out between us two, do I have the right to be mad at her for trying to take him from me at the get go? I am mad, but should I be? Dump that biotch, she aint no frined!!!!! give that man a twinkie!! ![]() |
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I dealt with this kind of drama in my 20s..I sure wouldn't want it in my 50s. Yikes. Find some grown up friends.
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