Here is the situation, tell me if I should be mad or not, cause I am...was out one night with my girlfriend, clubbing as usual, I ask this guy to dance who was sitting at the bar, we danced and became quite interested in each other, however my female friend let it be quite known that she thought he was a great catch, he has money, which she likes, and his personality was quite nice. So he calls me and we set a date for the following night, which was Saturday at this other club we were all gonna meet at cause the band was going to be good. I get sick, could not go, my girlfriend does go, and come to find out later she kisses him and basically makes a play for him, he is not interested in her, and waits for me to get better, which I do. We date for about two months, we break up, won't go into reasons, not cause I don't like him but basically cause I can't give him the time he needs, cause I work two jobs and go to school at night. Even though it did not work out between us two, do I have the right to be mad at her for trying to take him from me at the get go? I am mad, but should I be?

Aww come on people, plz read and advise, it ain't that damn long...

Who wound up with the guy

Sure wasn't her

either forgive her or don't its your choice

Yes.

I wouldnt trust her around the next one

Actually I don't know if he asked her out, I am sorta not talking to her and I told him if he asks her out not to tell me and tell her not to tell me...cause at one point he did text her when we weren't speaking for a night..we were arguing, he said it was a ploy to get me back...

yes u do have the right becasue you two were had eyes set on eahc other first she should respec that

Yes, that's basically how I feel, pretty dirty stuff..

no

he technically wasnt yours yet to claim. he was still fair game - every thing happens for a reason. never jeopardize friendships for someone you've known for such a short period of time.

EASY ANSWER..........NO NEED TO BE MAD MIGHT WANT TO WATCH HER IN THE FUTURE THOUGH

Yes, that's what I thought, then I was thinking am I just being naive to think this...but I would not have done this to my friend in reverse...no way.

this reminds me of this thing i had the biggest crush on this guy and i though he did too but a girl really close too me started trying too get at him in front of me........then.....when i was actaully dating nother guy after she would write my bf notes while we were all in the same class i felt like out of there like i didnt belong no where near he r should i be mad same with u u should diffenetlly be mad nwow u tell me should i

Another viewpoint and quite interesting...but she knew he asked me out...yet she still persued him

I think it's pretty tacky once a girlfriend makes a play for a guy he should be off limits to her friends (least this is how I see it)

Pretty nasty having a friends left overs JMO

why would you want this man anymore?

Sounds to me like a Dirty Girl

yes i don't he told me to give up school for him, wow, i felt like no way would i do that...for a man,.....

Hummm guess I'm just curious why has it taken you two months to get mad at her little late I think. To me this issue would have hit when it happened and then hell yeah I would be ticked. But two months later and no longer seeing the guy just too late in my book to let it get to me then. JMO

..but if he bites - who's the real dog