If someone is as dumb as a box of rocks, and is warned about a "playa" is it wrong to laugh at them for getting played?

I'm really having a moral delema about this right now....(no really, I am)

I'm not saying the people (myself included) who have been played and have no warning, I'm speaking of woman/men who ARE warned and still fall victim to it.

thats what we call a dumb ho

Your being played right now Lily

its just something people have to go though for themselves

Insult to injury probably won't win you any friends...

As long as it's you doing it suga....

its a dog eat dog world

Oh yes, my friend winning is much in question....

sometimes ppl are sooo caught up in the person they are with that even when they are warned that that person is up to know good

they are blind to it.. they cant see it because they dont want to

if this happened to me (actually it has happened)
i know i'd feel bad if a friend who tried to warn me of it.. laughed at me when it happened

however.. who am i to judge what someone would laugh at

just know that the person has feelings , and even if they are warned sometimes ya just have to find out for yourself that ur being played

and its nice to have someone who wont laugh to turn to when it does

Well the thing is, they want so badly to be liked that they believe the people that are playing them. No one else tells them the things they want to hear, so they line up for abuse. It's pathetic, really. Insecurity is a powerful force.

I agree. Oh..I like the red hair, it look good

I told you so or

Laugh at them would be up to the person i guess

hmmm, yeah, but sometimes the person just thinks you are jealous, so they ignore you. and sometimes when the person is warning, they actually are a little jealous.

I feel if I warned them and they "believe" I am wrong then there is a life lesson they need to learn that I cannot help them with. I would not laugh or say I told ya so either I would do all I can to be supportive of them when what I know is going to happen does.

Let's say the person who warned you isn't a friend but rather just someone who doesn't like what that person does, or someone who's been in the same situation, and then the person who was warned is nasty to the warner...Does that make sense???

jealous of someone being victimized by a player? Why?

I fully agree with that, but do you get nasty or do you at LEAST keep it in the back of your mind..I guess I'm at a disadvantage here, cuz I don't put much past anyone...

What???

hmm makes sense to me

i suppose i'd just blow it off.. nothin you can do about it

would laughing make you feel better?


i suppose.. i'd probably just say..

how do you like it

next time maybe you wont blow up at me when i try to warn you of something

then again.. id probably of laughed in their face when they got nasty with me to begin with then i wouldnt have to waste my time laughing about it later