DING DING DING you win the prize!

You've hit the nail right on the head!

hey cb

Me three! Telling the truth is soooo much easier! How has time to remember what they told to whom???

The greater majority of the time I was being lied to, my intuition was correct, had I listened to it. Sometimes we don't want to know the truth and act shocked when our suspicions were correct. which one of us is really lying? Does anyone really get to stand on the moral high ground, or do we just need to trust our intuition more?

kid's !

I was in the same boat. His whole life was a lie. It turned out he had no self esteem but in his defense he was a loser. :)

THAT'S COMEDIC GOLD.......

Who writes for you?

Now that you put your face back up my comment makes me appear gay.

THANKS ROB!!

I had to do something with the bitterness

(((((tanya))))) Unfortunately some people (men and women) don't know truth from fiction. It is somethinbg they have done for so long they don't know the difference. I am sorry for you love and please call me today if you need to talk

I totally agree. And who knows? Honestly what does it matter because they won't change Just know it's not you.

Lies, lies, all lies!

Oh yes, I can! What's there not to fall in love with? But seriously, never say never. Especially when it comes to emotions....

Joe- i love that you said that, you know when you have that "nagging feeling" with someone you know something isnt right but you just shove it back because you want that person for one reason or another? Done it and got the t-shirt lol and i had no one else to blame but myself when i got hurt!

As I said on another thread- people lie because.... they are LIARS!

I may be an insufferable optimist but I think if I keep approaching new people with honesty and just being myself, I will meet someone that can be truthful to! BTW had a Faaannntastic date the other nite!

Call it inadequacy. Call it what you like. But the bottom line here is that people lie to make themselves seem more important. They want to matter. They want to be impressive. Here is an example.

Say a guy starts talking to a girl on here. Now, knowing that she is about so many hours away from him, he feels he can build himself up into this "mega man" that basically has his sh*t together. They start off slowly, and then when she sees that he is a surgeon, she figures that it could be too good to be true. Why would a surgeon be on here? But, he is convincing cause dude knows how to pull the wool over the eyes. So, she believes him and that he has all these nice things that he says he does. Yeah, he is stroking his own ego, but it also shows that he has no confidenece in who he really is. So, he has to pretend to be someone else cause he feels that it is the only way he can get a woman. It's all a lie. The whole relationship is. You can't lie and hope to build something that requires trust. And f*ck that crap about lieing for the "greater good". That is total BS.

People lie because they want to believe something about themselves that is not true and they want others to believe it too.....if they tell themselves & others the lie often enough they will actually believe it to be truth....

i've known pathological liars.....they build false walls around themselves....don't take responsibility for their actions, and look to blame everything else but themselves.....

my thought is - I'm never gonna get old

You are describing my STBX to a "t"!!!! It's all my fault, including the fact that he cheated!

It all depends on what they are lying about. I lie sometimes to my significant other just to keep the peace. I do alot for my family and he gets mad about it. If one of them call me or need something, I will give it to them or help them and he will ask what did they want and I will say to him "Just to chat."

People suck .... and its really sad that people cant be truthful