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Topic: If you felt you wern't ready...
lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 05/14/08 07:14 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice?

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Wed 05/14/08 07:16 AM
Go for it but take it slow.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 05/14/08 07:16 AM
I would run like hell.

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Wed 05/14/08 07:17 AM Edited by rodfcutler on Wed 05/14/08 07:17 AM
always listen to your heart,and your inner voice for they always know whats best for you! Best of luck! Rodster

cloudedsunshine Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 1375	Wed 05/14/08 07:17 AM
Go for it. Carpe Diem.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 05/14/08 07:19 AM
WOW such diverse responses...

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 05/14/08 07:22 AM
always listen to your heart,and your inner voice for they always know whats best for you! Best of luck! Rodster But....my heart and my inner voice are in conflict!

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Wed 05/14/08 07:23 AM
the voices in my head told me , i should not listen to them

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 05/14/08 07:25 AM
I actually was in this situation. We connected on all levels and I was in conflict about what to do. When we first met, all of it just came together and I am so glad I decided to take the chance. I'm happy.....very happy to be with her. So, bottom line here....you look at everything that is going on and you just come to a decision on what to do. How does the old saying go? Nothing ventured nothing gained?

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Wed 05/14/08 07:26 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice? You only live once. I'd go for it. My inner voice said stop when I met my ex, but it lasted for 15 years, and we're still friends.

siesta13 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 148	Wed 05/14/08 07:28 AM
My experience has been chatting on line, exchanging a few e-mails, then phone calls. Then we finally meet for the first time and bam they think your in a full blown relationship. Why can't people take time to get to know one another?

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 05/14/08 07:28 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice? You only live once. I'd go for it. My inner voice said stop when I met my ex, but it lasted for 15 years, and we're still friends. But, what if you believe in reincarnation?

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Wed 05/14/08 07:30 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice? You only live once. I'd go for it. My inner voice said stop when I met my ex, but it lasted for 15 years, and we're still friends. But, what if you believe in reincarnation? I believe in reincarnation, but I doubt I'll be reincarnated at the same time and fall in love again.

GuideHenri Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 632	Wed 05/14/08 07:32 AM Edited by GuideHenri on Wed 05/14/08 07:32 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice? This is not the sort of decision you should make sober.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Wed 05/14/08 07:34 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice? This is not the sort of decision you should make sober. well just a couple drinks would send me over the edge, I think LOL

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Wed 05/14/08 07:39 AM
Last time I listened to my inner voiice I was Institutionalized for 3 years!!!

smilingeyes_976 Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 1152	Wed 05/14/08 07:43 AM
If I felt like I wasnt ready I would just say that I wasn't ready. I need to take things slowly. And to be honest if someone pushes me for more than I can or am ready to give then I push back. Makes me sound like a real wench but I was rushed the first time, will not be rushed again.

siesta13 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 148	Wed 05/14/08 07:46 AM
If I felt like I wasnt ready I would just say that I wasn't ready. I need to take things slowly. And to be honest if someone pushes me for more than I can or am ready to give then I push back. Makes me sound like a real wench but I was rushed the first time, will not be rushed again. Amen!

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 05/14/08 07:52 AM
If you felt you wern't ready for a serious relationship yet, but you met someone you really clicked with...would you seize the moment and go 4 it or would you listen to your inner voice? inner voice

cloudedsunshine Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 1375	Wed 05/14/08 07:55 AM
Last time I listened to my inner voiice I was Institutionalized for 3 years!!! Mine only lasted seven days but man those hopitals suck. (this was a joke)