Hey, just thought I would bring this up, who here has had some one cheat on them and how did it make u feel.

For me it felt as if no matter what I did I wasnt good enough and as if I was the one in the wrong.

What about you?

I was pissed off.

do you anyone is going to say it felt great to be cheated on.this is not a good topic

as im aware ive never been cheated on

IT FELT LIKE SH$T AND STILL DOES...

my ex hubby cheated before during and after we got married and i put up with it, thinking he would change, yea right he of course didnt, even when i was pg with our son, i had a friend of mine stay with us as she was having problems in her marriage, and he tried to fool around with her, and the next day she had called and told me about it, and i belive her over him anytime, and when i confronted him, he was laughing about it.. i knew him well enough. i trusted my bestfriend more than i did him. and after that there many times when i had a bf took me awhile to trust, as i wasent sure if they would cheat. and the others didnt.. it was just me feeling insecure that they would.

I've learned that in relationships and life in general..as long as you are doing what you think is right then the rest is up to the other person..You can't control anything but yourself.

He had his reasons and I got over it.

Why is this topic coming up every ten minutes?

....because it happens so often, and for those of us who don't cheat, it is something beyond comprehension. Yet we still ask why and seek out answers on how to deal with it.

Not really a problem in my relationships thus far.

I have the answer on how to deal with a cheater..Can you say.."Loraina Bobbit"?

the best way to deal with it is to realize that people make mistakes and no one is perfect.

Made me absolutely sick that I got cheated on & now I don't really trust people anymore

I had a girl cheat on me ONCE and only ONCE...........I will never play a game of checkers with her again.

I about had a nervous breakdown... LOL... I didnt see it coming... I still have trust issues over it... it sucks!

It is interesting to me how long people brood over this. I have been cheated on, and it hurt at the time; but looking back over the relationship, I could see where I contributed to it. I never saw myself as a blameless victim as you all seem to be doing; and that is why I got over it. And if you can't see the roles that you actually play in your relationships, then you are not looking hard enough. Let's face it - people whose needs are being met don't cheat. So clearly something is wrong in the first place. Being a victim is unattractive.

Last time I got cheated on made me feel like crap... Then I broke up with the girl... if she has to cheat, she obviously doesn't want you or has even the slightest of the balls to give it to you straight...

Been cheated on once...it was horrible

No one will ever have the opportunity to do that again...

Been cheated on three times and will it ever ever happen again. It was the worst thing I have ever gone through in a relationship

sounds like every one has had to deal with it at one time or another,,,,,,an yes i belive it makes you not trust th next partner as much as you should