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i cant understand why i keep getting hurt all the damn time
im a good hearted woman here i dont cheat or hurt them then why am i always on the back burner here someone please tell me why? 
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..because you allow it
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Edited by
No1sLove
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Wed 05/07/08 07:06 PM
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you're either dating the wrong men, or you're allowing this behavior somehow...that's usually the only two choices.
Well, technically, you're allowing it either way, really. 
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i cant understand why i keep getting hurt all the damn time im a good hearted woman here i dont cheat or hurt them then why am i always on the back burner here someone please tell me why?
Continue to be a good hearted woman. Don't let slime balls bring you down. |
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hugs hon...Don't give your heart so freely.
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Act like a doormat, get treated like a doormat.
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I feel for ya sweetie, been there a time or two myself. But I had to go to b*tch classes so I wouldn't get walked all over again. JK on the b*tch classes
 The bottom line is we sometimes let it happen, therefore to keep it from happening you have to learn to spot red flags and take it from there. Either stay in the relationship or get out
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I tell ya why! It's because you're too damned nice. You get no respect when you are. Ppl in general don't respect a woose. I gotta listen to myself and treat guy's like I do my co-worker/friend's. I don't take any crap from them and they respect me for the way I am. When it come's to guy's I roll over like a begging dog. Who can respect that? I need to have a heart to heart w/myself.
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The answers are inside you, grasshopper.
Do not assume it's everyone else around you that has the problem, but that you are exhibiting behaviors that others (the wrong types) are attracted to. Sure, you say you're "nice" but are you really nice, or are you just a pushover? Are you really nice, or are you nice when you get your way? |
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The answers are inside you, grasshopper. Do not assume it's everyone else around you that has the problem, but that you are exhibiting behaviors that others (the wrong types) are attracted to. Sure, you say you're "nice" but are you really nice, or are you just a pushover? Are you really nice, or are you nice when you get your way? |
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I dropped off his stuff today. I knocked once, he didn't answer so, I just left it there.
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I sooo agree with that! If you're can be walked on you might as well carry a sign, cause they'll see it everytime. I have a friend who gets walked on all the time and I always wonder where she meets these kinds of men...she's wearing a sign!!!
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dont allow yourself to be a victim
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Because you allow yourself to be, perhaps?
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I dropped off his stuff today. I knocked once, he didn't answer so, I just left it there. Good move Shoes, I wouldn't have even bothered to knock. |
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I will go along with allowing guys to walk over you. But I feel you are attracting the wrong guys, or you choose the wrong guys who see this in you, so they get what they want and then leave ya hurting.
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Looking at your profile now, I'd say you definitely bring it on yourself. If someone's willing to leave you, they should be willing to make some changes in order to come back. By you letting them back in with nothing changed, you're setting yourself up for the same heartbreak you started with the first time.
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gooooooooooof......sorry......long time no see man..
um.........u will find the right guy if its meant to be......good luck sweetie 
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..because you allow it These guys are right. Ask and they will be honest. That's why I like it here. (even though I can't handle the truth..) But yeah ....listen to them. ---Ken  
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