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Topic: people that need constant reassurance that you love them
trish777 Joined Sat 05/03/08 Posts: 4	Sat 05/03/08 04:45 PM
I have been seeing a guy for the past 3weeks now and he constantly wants me to hold his hand, kiss him, cuddle him, when im busy and cant do this he gets in a huff and says i dont care about him as much as he cares about me, were not teenagers, he seems the jelous type also, im finding this very draining any advice

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Sat 05/03/08 04:47 PM
get rid of him. personally i can't stand ppl that are too clingy or needy.

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Sat 05/03/08 04:48 PM
He is too possessive.I would try and let him grow up some,otherwise he might end up controlling you,and you dont want that,I can assure you!

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Sat 05/03/08 04:48 PM
OMG I cannot stand that!!!

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Sat 05/03/08 04:48 PM
I have been seeing a guy for the past 3weeks now and he constantly wants me to hold his hand, kiss him, cuddle him, when im busy and cant do this he gets in a huff and says i dont care about him as much as he cares about me, were not teenagers, he seems the jelous type also, im finding this very draining any advice he was breast fed to long as a child.!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
sounds like you are unhappy

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
What an insecure baby he is!

9CORNERPOCKET Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2072	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
hmmmmmmmmmmm..........then give him a reason to really get jealous.....................

TakinCareOfBusiness Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 534	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
Kiss me, Hold me, Hug Me ((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
He is too possessive.I would try and let him grow up some,otherwise he might end up controlling you,and you dont want that,I can assure you! mm, I agree

Italy0219 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2523	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
Yep this type of person is so draining, it won't work with your different personalities...

ADiamond Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 2375	Sat 05/03/08 04:49 PM
Trust you instincts......let him know how you feel on the subject..... If he cares, or it matters he will respect your wishes.... If not, he is a controller and will drain the sh*t out of U! Excuse my strong language...... You are wise, don't ovelook that......

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sat 05/03/08 04:50 PM
and just because you dont want to hug him or hold his hand, he shouldnt get jealous, he sounds immature and it may sound like he doesnt trust you... very neg. hes not worth your time

mermaid61 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 35	Sat 05/03/08 04:50 PM
Been there done that. Should get out now, will only get worse as it goes on. Believe me I know!!

TakinCareOfBusiness Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 534	Sat 05/03/08 04:50 PM
If we are sleeping together, swapping spit and body fluids, I want to kiss, n cuddle and hug and all that mushy stuff sometimes

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sat 05/03/08 04:51 PM
No, not a good deal. He's smothering you. That never works. He has no consideration for you.

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Sat 05/03/08 04:51 PM
Yep this type of person is so draining i agree with that 110%

kittyeyes Joined Sun 04/06/08 Posts: 215	Sat 05/03/08 04:52 PM
only dating for 3 weeks and he is this needy ... hmmm,those look like big old red flags. If you like him try to find out what he is compensating for with all the extra attention and work with him on it. On the other hand if you really don't feel that connection then it's better to break it off now before you get any more involved.

TakinCareOfBusiness Joined Mon 03/31/08 Posts: 534	Sat 05/03/08 04:52 PM
Your all wrong, wrong I tell you Hug Kiss Hold Hands

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Sat 05/03/08 04:53 PM
I don't like clingy guys