Ladies and gentlemen, YOU have heard THIS here first by ME.....lol

Dating SITES produce FAR MORE PAIN, than LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO, im NOT feeling any pains right NOW about me or MY LIFE.

BUT,,Typing, then talking with them.
Then meeting THEM, and have BOTH your worlds fold in-ward......

THIS is getting to be a CONSTANT, "THING" to have happen???WTF???

Let me ask ALL OF YOU...

WHY? do YOU feel this happens to so many on these sites?????

I think people just forget to remain their real selves. Cyber world seems to take on a life of its own.

If I had any idea what you just asked I'd answer you.

maybe the expectations are too over rated????

Beautiful dreamers?????

Out of sheer loneliness one will go for the first one that comes along????

SMILE {{{Teri}}} you know I will be marrying a man I met on here

So PAINS... the hell I care???

simple....

its eiser to fall for the idea of what you think someone is..

also. its eiser for the people who are of a cheating mind to cheat..

im not sayin that love cant be found..

just sayn that its easier for those of a bad mind to find prey online.

<------What?? This place here and ALOT,,,HELLO,,,ALOT of my friends and MYSELF in past affairs,lol BUT,,
How can TWO adults, "THINK" that THEY are just perfect...

THEN,,,meet, and find out that ONE,,,wants the other to just GO,,,LEAVE,,,??

I mean DAMM,,how can friendships,,,TURN so WRONG???

think you may be taking this all to seriously. too much expectations, have some fun, meet people if 'your' soulmate/significant other is here, you two will meet. until then, enjoy the ride.

Meaning...

That is because people allow it to happen

Most failures occur due to ones expectations, and if those arent met?

AHHhhh New,,,,I didn't know,,,,congratulations to you BOTH!!!!! Very cool...and hey I didn't say nor mean that LOVE NEVER happens here.
IT DOES...

But by FAR more find hurt, pain and their own feelings of loss??

Than the FEW who really find LOVE..like you and your lucky guy,wink,lol..

My opinion is that most live in a fantasy or what you call the excitment net relationship. Building up somthing that is not really there until you actually spent time with that person. So there for most are caught up in fals feelings beliving that it's real and when reality sets in. So do there emotions and all hell breaks....

Well said, I agree.

What is life without taking risks on everything there is to offer out there. Stay Possitive and just have fun

OK,,,enjoy the RIDE,,lol.

NOW,,is THIS PLACE a door way to a bed, AND A HEART?

OR, A door way to a heart that LEADS to a bed?


I just had a friends here, who have talked together for like a year..
THEN, one set of friends MEET,,,and ONE doesn't want the other no-more???

Then the other set of friends, one just STOPS writing,CALLING, and doesn't give her ANY explanations as to WHY??

But ALL were close by emails and telephone weekly??

It just SUCKS to have THEM go through this hurt and feel bad w/o even knowing WHY????

hey sweety because alot of women dont now how to treat there men but i sure do lol

I can empathize, your friends were hurt.

But truthfully, the internet is not to blame. The dating site is not blame. Everyone is responsible for his/her own actions. Not the internet.

You said NOW,,is THIS PLACE a door way to a bed, AND A HEART?

OR, A door way to a heart that LEADS to a bed?
this is a means of communication it will lead exactly where you and someone else allow it to lead.

The internet is a means of contact nothing more nothing less.

Well really "everything is cooler online" (I mean they made a song about it).because there is soo much that u don't really know about the Cyber person (Internet Person), even if they tell u their life story and soo it is really harder to develop a true realtionship...It's just not the same as if you meet them in person...

I agree,I have talked to people on msn for two months thinking I knew them somewhat only to find that when we met we were way to different.It happens

exactly many people wear false faces, many do not its all a chance we take when we meet others.