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Topic: Married men
Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Thu 05/15/08 11:26 PM
Good news....it has all ended for good :) I am happy! Its for the best! Thanks to everyones advice! Call me a skeptic, and you'd be right, but I'm going to put some popcorn in the microwave and wait for the sequel, where you fishtail and either mourn the ended relationship or go back to him (or both, ruining the mourning period) or he cons his way back into the affair and you start wondering what just happened. This is all too common to assume it's over, at least for more than a week.

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 05/16/08 06:12 PM
That is all you got so enjoy him ! Without him ,maybe you will have no one ! . Who knows ?!. .

Purplewingsangel Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 1989	Fri 05/16/08 07:06 PM
Why is it that alot of people are attracted to older, married men? I am one of them! It sucks cuz I have falling for this guy whose married for almost 9yrs. We have been seeing each other for over a yr and a half now. I can actually say that I have deep feelings for him. What should I do? im attracted to older once married men

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sat 05/17/08 04:13 AM Edited by angelindarkness on Sat 05/17/08 04:13 AM
Is it because they are a challenge for you - or because you see them as "safe" emotionally?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 05/17/08 04:18 AM
thats not right to mess with a married man you need to break it off asap jmo

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Sat 05/17/08 04:21 AM
Does no one ever think...................that if you mess with a married man/women their is an issue (comitment) with that person cause if they have no problem cheating on their spouse what do you think they will do to you when the novelty of you wears off

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Sat 05/17/08 04:25 AM
Does no one ever think...................that if you mess with a married man/women their is an issue (comitment) with that person cause if they have no problem cheating on their spouse what do you think they will do to you when the novelty of you wears off Oh good answer!

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Sat 05/17/08 04:26 AM
Does no one ever think...................that if you mess with a married man/women their is an issue (comitment) with that person cause if they have no problem cheating on their spouse what do you think they will do to you when the novelty of you wears off yep that hits the nail on the head totally..

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Sat 05/17/08 04:34 AM
If he is married...stay away!!!!

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Sat 05/17/08 04:43 AM
Here's one your relationship is built on dishonesty......secret meetings........in low profile spots so knowing this and what it takes do you actually think you can truely ever trust this person

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sat 05/17/08 05:03 AM
caamken, you are forgetting that maybe some of these people may not be "trustwothy" themselves. Afterall, takes "two to Tango".

caamken Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 18287	Sat 05/17/08 05:15 AM
caamken, you are forgetting that maybe some of these people may not be "trustwothy" themselves. Afterall, takes "two to Tango". Morning {{{Angel}}} tried to send you anote this morning but I was blocked hope all is well with you and Mike I didn't forget that but for the most part what I see is nievity. that these silver tongue people can convince someone to move in their direction has the promice the world. but you are correct in your statement

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sat 05/17/08 05:40 AM
Hello ((((caamken)))). Odd. Not sure why anyone would be blocked from sending me mail. I'll check the preferences later. Ah, but it is not always the (for the sake of argument) male that is the pursuer and the one who owns the silver tongue. I am learning all too well - by objective means - on this site (of all places) that often times, the pursuer of "taken" individuals is the female with the "golden" figure. It challenges our perceptions about the "bad boy". Sometimes, people are almost set-up to fail. You are very right in all you have said, however.

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Sat 05/17/08 05:44 AM
If he leaves his wife of 9 years for you, what makes you think he won t leave you for the next person. Leave him immediately.

michelle75 Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 139	Sat 05/17/08 01:44 PM
its a tough thing your going through here ive been there myself its not easy either just follow your heart no one can tell you what to do here just think whats best for you ok

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Sun 05/18/08 11:28 AM
caamken, you are forgetting that maybe some of these people may not be "trustwothy" themselves. Afterall, takes "two to Tango". Morning {{{Angel}}} tried to send you anote this morning but I was blocked hope all is well with you and Mike I didn't forget that but for the most part what I see is nievity. that these silver tongue people can convince someone to move in their direction has the promice the world. but you are correct in your statement LOL....now I know why it was blocked! Silly Michael. He and I tease each other in this manner at times. All in good fun....waiting to see how soon it takes before I discover a tiny change in filters or preferences. It was very subtle this time. I was wondering why all my mail stopped all of a sudden. I thought people were finally starting to read my profile and headline. Not. lol All is superb! And, I've still got a lil angel on my shoulder.