Hey, I know that is, completely, heartbreaking. Unfortunately it does happen quite a bit. When you meet the " right " woman she will love you faithfully and completely. Make up with your brother though. Blood is thinker than water. But, he should feel remorse for what he did. Family is family though. She was probably hanging out with him too much. Anyway, you will meet a woman that takes care of you. I would never cheat on my husband and we deploy at different times. Don't give up hope.


Love,'


Sgt Peters, Tiffany

That really suck's,,, I have 2 brother's that would do the same and have tried,,,, I don't speak to them anymore but their is more to it then just that.... Good luck

Not hard to figure out and I didn't even have to go to detective school..


So what are you going to do, follow her to every thread and make comments?

not really...just felt the need to on this one.

What did you do???

sorry to hear this

screw her best friend that'll teach her

I am so sorry that this has happened to you, but like others have said it happens all to often to everyone, some people just dont have morals anymore.....

hey everyone,
Sorry it takes so long to respond, i'm on my ship right now..and we have the slowest internet known to man. But this is how i found out...My wife and I are divorcing..because of a DIFFERENT affair i heard about while i was after i got back from deployment. But through the divorce my wife is trying to take me for everything so i ask a friend of mine to write up a witness statement who knew about her and this other guy...what i didn't know is that they also knew about my little brother and put that in there...so i emailed my lil bro and asked him..and he told me the truth..he also said he is willing to do anything that i need from him...so i'm flying him down to testify that he had an affair with her..and hopefully not get screwed over in the divorce...but yeah i'm in shock.

Wow. I don't think we knew you were married .. did we?

But that news really sux. Especially when you were overseas in harm's way. D*MN! Great brother !!

Well Judy I think he was getting divorced b/c of an affair and in the filings of her character found out she slept with his brother as well...

Sorry Isaac... I hope you find your true love and she shows you that not all are bad....

Makes sense... and I AM sorry for you Isaac

unfortunately too common - sorry to hear you have to deal with that!

Adultry ends a marriage

She has been seeing me too

not to change the subject but that's where i think this war takes the worst toll on the soldiers and that is their marriage.it's giving the soldiers spouse the perfect oppertunity to cheat and it has ruined alot of marriages.


sorry to hear what happened Isaac,i hope everything works out for you and your wife gets what she deserves!

ft hood? Thanks for your service hoooahh

Spider, you crack me up.

JB

I went through something very similar happen in my former marriage, only one of the gals he cheated with wasn't my relative, but my life long childhood friend. It is a double whammy; you are really victimized twice when two people you love betray you in such a horrendous manner. I remember feeling so lost and my personal level of trust for my fellow human beings dropped to zero. Then I began to hear of all the other .....(ahem)..."ladies" he had been bedding all along. He had led a pretty unscrupulous second life. After a while my outlook changed from brokenhearted wife to BETTER HER THAN ME ex-wife. You'll get there, too. You will look back on this one day and ask yourself why you didn't kick her to the curb so much earlier. Better days will come.

I know better days will come,
Thank you. I'm still in shock though because my little brother i would have trusted with my life. I guess i shouldn't have trusted him with my wife though. He does feel remorse and said that if he could give his life to take it back he would. But still, before this happened...i had the utmost respect and trust for him. But guess I was wrong. Right now i'm trying to find out if it was a one time thing...or if it was ongoing my whole deployment...it will really depend on how i treat him from now on. But i have to wait and see i guess.