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Topic: Friends First?
AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 12:27 PM
I know what that means to ME but guys,,, what does it mean when YOU say it?

itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Sun 04/27/08 12:27 PM
This is gonna be a while

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Sun 04/27/08 12:29 PM
Not interested in a relationship.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sun 04/27/08 12:29 PM Edited by Peccy on Sun 04/27/08 12:30 PM
I'll be friends, but I want benefits! Like borrowing your car!

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sun 04/27/08 12:30 PM
Are you patient enough to wait? And, to build something first?

iUse2B Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 95	Sun 04/27/08 12:30 PM
Hmm, means exactly what it says. FREINDS before ANYTHING else. Words do have meaning..specific meanings in fact. What's 2+2??? About the same complexity.

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Sun 04/27/08 12:33 PM
It means if you are the right guy they will still do you on the first date. I would like to be friends first but I am never that lucky.....

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 12:33 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sun 04/27/08 12:33 PM
To me, friendship first is a must. You must get to know someone first and decide to take it further only after a friendship has developed. Otherwise the world would be based on one night stands that will never benefit either party involved.True loves comes from true friendships.

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Sun 04/27/08 12:37 PM
friends first is nice as long as we'er still friends last

iUse2B Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 95	Sun 04/27/08 12:38 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! LOL, oh I understand what you are saying there. Just goes to show you..MOST men don't even know 2+2. And BOTH genders are losing "definitions" by the DAY! They have no clue of what words actually mean or that they actually have weight. IQ's are already averaging in DOUBLE DIGITS!!! So best advice...be really careful how you choose your FRIENDS!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sun 04/27/08 12:40 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it.

MyrtleBeachDude Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 4028	Sun 04/27/08 12:41 PM
uaually when I meet an atractive woman I ask her for sex. After she slaps the hell out of me I extend my hand and ask her to be friends. bottom line....I haven't gotten laid in months but....I have a shltload of female friends

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 12:44 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it. I totally agree. I just hate the disappointment of having differing definitions.

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sun 04/27/08 12:50 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it. I totally agree. I just hate the disappointment of having differing definitions. "Say what you mean and mean what you say", Right?

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 12:52 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it. I totally agree. I just hate the disappointment of having differing definitions. "Say what you mean and mean what you say", Right? That's why I'm asking!! I would like to know what you mean!!

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sun 04/27/08 12:56 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it. I totally agree. I just hate the disappointment of having differing definitions. "Say what you mean and mean what you say", Right? That's why I'm asking!! I would like to know what you mean!! Sorry! To me "friendship" is just that. Being able to talk and share with someone without muudying up the situation with sex. Wanting to know how one feels and what their opinions are. Really getting to know him/her so that when and IF it leads to more, you won't regret having made that move.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 01:08 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it. I totally agree. I just hate the disappointment of having differing definitions. "Say what you mean and mean what you say", Right? That's why I'm asking!! I would like to know what you mean!! Sorry! To me "friendship" is just that. Being able to talk and share with someone without muudying up the situation with sex. Wanting to know how one feels and what their opinions are. Really getting to know him/her so that when and IF it leads to more, you won't regret having made that move. That's my definition as well.. just not what I am experiencing. For that reason I started thinking my definition was wrong.

A64WOODY Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 6830	Sun 04/27/08 01:11 PM
Every time a man has said this to me he has wanted sex included in our "friendship". I prefer to take things slow but also don't sleep with my friends! But with time, your "friendship" could be much more and that would be the time to make more of it. Old fashioned thinking is the best. Be clear and be understood. That's the way I like it. I totally agree. I just hate the disappointment of having differing definitions. "Say what you mean and mean what you say", Right? That's why I'm asking!! I would like to know what you mean!! Sorry! To me "friendship" is just that. Being able to talk and share with someone without muudying up the situation with sex. Wanting to know how one feels and what their opinions are. Really getting to know him/her so that when and IF it leads to more, you won't regret having made that move. That's my definition as well.. just not what I am experiencing. For that reason I started thinking my definition was wrong.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sun 04/27/08 01:13 PM
friends listen ....when noone else cares friends help...without ya askin..... friends hold ya ....when yer down..... friends give.....without askin fer nuttin friends come with benefits...... far greater in treasure...... that the benefits yer thinkin I mean........ friends are the ones..... that like ya....... inspite of who ya are...........