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...harsh and not mean at the same time?
what i mean is if somebody can just say things very upfront (probably too raw) but not trying to be mean. just too honest. |
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probably not..
i think anything thats harshly said is kinda mean in a way .. now you can tell someone ur not being mean but ur gonna be honest.. so at least they know ur not tryin to be mean but .. still may sound that way to them anyway |
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hey tlw! yes, its possible. it depends more on the person hearing it than saying it. you know the people that take EVERYTHING the wrong way??? but im very upfront and havent offended too many....i hope.
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Izzie says I do just that...
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Depends if you are thin skinned or not.
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...harsh and not mean at the same time? Yes. But..it can still hurt the one that's hearing it. |
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ive been told i can say the meanest things, but the way i say them makes them laugh, it's all in the expression of your face.
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I think the ability to separate the two falls mostly in the attitude and delivery. It takes a skilled communicator to pull it off, so not many can. I've seen a lot of people try, but come off mean anyway...leading to frequent misunderstandings.
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ive been told i can say the meanest things, but the way i say them makes them laugh, it's all in the expression of your face. |
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I think i'm sensitive.
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...harsh and not mean at the same time? what i mean is if somebody can just say things very upfront (probably too raw) but not trying to be mean. just too honest. |
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...harsh and not mean at the same time? what i mean is if somebody can just say things very upfront (probably too raw) but not trying to be mean. just too honest. Yeah! it's called telling it like it is.... |
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