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Topic: other factors interfere...
lilangel2's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:15 AM
I think alot of the reason there are sooo many single, lonely people on here is..OTHER FACTORS INTERFERE! Distance probably plays a big part...gunshy probably is a big issue...children...jobs...finances..ex's......If you finally do find someone that is compatible (age-distance-likes and dislikes-physical attraction etc...which is hard to find in itself) and OTHER FACTORS INTERFERE...then, you are back at square one.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:16 AM
Yep, that is why I just have fun in the forums and stopped worrying about finding someone.

no photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:17 AM
i'm never going back to square one....


square two??? that's a whole different matter.....smokin

Etrain's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:17 AM
you got that right....wish it was more simple...lifes a pain in the heartsad

tanyaann's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:17 AM
relationship are complicated and as much as we would like to find that one person... sometimes everything doesn't click into place. but if you are happy with yourself, then it ok to wait until you find the one.

tanyaann's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:17 AM
Edited by tanyaann on Fri 04/25/08 06:23 AM
sorry double post

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:18 AM

you got that right....wish it was more simple...lifes a pain in the heartsad


Hey, nothing good comes easily.

Peccy's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:19 AM
distance is the factor for me ALWAYS!

Monier's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:20 AM
I would travel on a weekend to meet someone for a date, and would even move and find a new job near them if I was passionate about them and they felt the same. I feel that a great person is worth it, as well as trusting them enough that they are who they say they are. If not, I've only wasted a plane ticket and a little of my time. Worth it to me.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:21 AM

I would travel on a weekend to meet someone for a date, and would even move and find a new job near them if I was passionate about them and they felt the same. I feel that a great person is worth it, as well as trusting them enough that they are who they say they are. If not, I've only wasted a plane ticket and a little of my time. Worth it to me.


I have room in my house.love

Peccy's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:22 AM

I would travel on a weekend to meet someone for a date, and would even move and find a new job near them if I was passionate about them and they felt the same. I feel that a great person is worth it, as well as trusting them enough that they are who they say they are. If not, I've only wasted a plane ticket and a little of my time. Worth it to me.
If I traveled to meet all my interest, I would never be on!

Monier's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:22 AM



I have room in my house.love


That sure would save alot of hotel expenses :smile: , but I really like staying in hotels as much as saving.

Monier's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:24 AM


If I traveled to meet all my interest, I would never be on!


I guess they would have to really be special

lilangel2's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:24 AM

I would travel on a weekend to meet someone for a date, and would even move and find a new job near them if I was passionate about them and they felt the same. I feel that a great person is worth it, as well as trusting them enough that they are who they say they are. If not, I've only wasted a plane ticket and a little of my time. Worth it to me.


Well most people aren't so flexible. Like me...I have a daughter in school...she has 2 more years to graduate. She has attented this school her whole life...all of her friends are there. When her dad died, i made a promise to her and to myself that I would not disrupt her life anymore than it had been disrupted. So, as a mom, my life has got to be put on the back burner for now. It is a sacrifice I gladly make. She is my heart. :heart:

lilangel2's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:25 AM


I would travel on a weekend to meet someone for a date, and would even move and find a new job near them if I was passionate about them and they felt the same. I feel that a great person is worth it, as well as trusting them enough that they are who they say they are. If not, I've only wasted a plane ticket and a little of my time. Worth it to me.
If I traveled to meet all my interest, I would never be on!


You PLAYER you!!! bigsmile

touchybear's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:26 AM

I would travel on a weekend to meet someone for a date, and would even move and find a new job near them if I was passionate about them and they felt the same. I feel that a great person is worth it, as well as trusting them enough that they are who they say they are. If not, I've only wasted a plane ticket and a little of my time. Worth it to me.










done that...moved to arizona for a women who was divorced...right after i got there i she tells me she is going back with her ex for her daughters sake...wow...any way i stayed in arizona for 4 years working on the copper mines as waelder...but eventually came back home 2 years ago...i would think 3 times before i did that again...

Nickinolosers's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:27 AM

Yep, that is why I just have fun in the forums and stopped worrying about finding someone.


Yep

Me toobigsmile

Nickinolosers's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:27 AM

distance is the factor for me ALWAYS!


Hell, Peccy

You are only two states away

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:29 AM
I don't realy see this as a dating site so much anymore. More of a friendship site.

Peccy's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:30 AM


distance is the factor for me ALWAYS!


Hell, Peccy

You are only two states away
but you're a dude

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