I totally messed things up, I started dating a girl the beginning of january, I told her last month that I fell in love with her. That was a couple days before her birthday, and she said I love you too. Well, we haven't seen each other for 3 weeks, and i couldn't figure out why. Her facebook page under relationship status says "it's complicated". On one of her mini feed stories it says, "Michelle is thinking why do they have to complicate it by saying I love you? Just leave it at the door folks....leave it at the door." I should have kept it to myself.

oooh steve I'm sorry

shes just not the one darling

I told you before hon, if you can't be with someone that you can express yourself with, then maybe she's not the one for you. And if she felt that way, she shouldn't have said it back to you

No way man....if you feel it.....why not tell it!! I think it's time to move on.....JMO. Find someone who will appreciate you without all the drama!! I know it takes time my friend and I know you're hurting.....Stick with us....we'll help you. If things clear up GREAT!! If you need ANYONE to talk to, look my up and I'll be GLAD to help in any way!!!! Best of luck Steven.....

thanks

That's too bad. She must not be ready. Don't take it personally. It's sad when people go well together but are just not in the same place.

Damn man I'm sorry... I know how you feel. Almost the same exact thing happened to me.

Trust me, everyone is right saying "she's not the one". You shouldn’t feel bad for expressing yourself, she should feel bad for not accepting you.

Listen to this advise.

DRAMA!!! Move on. Who needs that?

I agree with that, I know she is not the one, I just feel like I've wasted so much time caring about how she feels

Use the 3 LITTLE WORDS with EXTREME CAUTION!

{{{{{{ Steven }}}}}}}

First.. I am soooooooo sorry! I know this is huge blow and heart shattering. Sending you as many hugs as the Angels will deliver

I know you wish you could take it back... however.. if that is truly how you felt/feel then you were right to express it. For now, as yourself: do I love her whether it is reciprocated or not? If the answer is yes, then send her a note letting her know that. She may be conditioned to believe that if someone says it to her that she HAS to say it/feel it back. Not too many people are actually familiar with unconditional love.

If though, you NEED her to return it in order for the relationship to continue.. then this is a blessing in disguise... for it shows that it is not the real deal for either of you.

WIshing you Peace... and Blessings

I honestly have lost interest in her the past couple of weeks, but seeing that really hurt...if she isn't into me, why doesn't she just break it off instead of leading me on? Is she hoping that I do the job?

its never a mistake to tell someone how u feel.it wasn't returned but now u know and you can go on.be proud of all the heartless men u r not 1

Sorry bro, that stinks. It makes me cautious because I was thinking about dropping the L bomb on my girl. I think I will wait now.

question for you, if you having such doubts why are you not the one to break things off?

if you have lost interest.. why wait for her to break it off? Why not do it yourself? Is this really how you feel in your heart.. or is this a battered ego speaking? Only YOU know that answer to that

I just feel neglected, ignored, she avoids my phone calls...I had a conversation with her the other night because she always texts me, I told her I want to talk on the phone, have a real conversation...she called me and we talked...I told her I don't call her because she says she is so busy with school, so I don't want to bother her. She told me that I can call her...well, i've called her 4 times since then, and she doesn't answer and doesn't call me back...she again texts me a day and a half later.

aww man..I am sooo sorry..well there is always me..