Topic: Which one of THOSE guys are you?
Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:05 AM

so....I'm curious......

what exactly are the


other categories?????????smokin smokin


all the good ones, I'm too jaded to mention right now...besides I don't know which one YOU fit into.

jeffish569's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:06 AM
well obviously I'm goin with the diamond as the more dominate of my combo! Basically because I do things for others alot. If I have plans with my lady though the other folk will have to wait...first things first.

tearsofblood666's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:09 AM
um..
Not sure, maybe the one that would date me would know better :smile:

robert1652's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:10 AM
You wrote

Do I sound bitter and jaded? eh, maybe a little.....laugh laugh laugh laugh

But I'm sure someone could make a list about women with the same definitions....and I'm ok with that too....we're crazy, no doubts about that...bigsmile

Answers
Only you know the answer to that one and I beleive you gave the answer

secondly ask any expert in dating The first date is to decide if you want to see that person second time and you could do this by exchanging phone numbers so you don't have to reject someone face to face

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robert1652's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:11 AM

um..
Not sure, maybe the one that would date me would know better :smile:


Ummmm Thanks but no thanks
Joke
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Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:14 AM

You wrote

Do I sound bitter and jaded? eh, maybe a little.....laugh laugh laugh laugh

But I'm sure someone could make a list about women with the same definitions....and I'm ok with that too....we're crazy, no doubts about that...bigsmile

Answers
Only you know the answer to that one and I beleive you gave the answer

secondly ask any expert in dating The first date is to decide if you want to see that person second time and you could do this by exchanging phone numbers so you don't have to reject someone face to face

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I am a dating expert....of bad dates....laugh

tearsofblood666's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:15 AM


um..
Not sure, maybe the one that would date me would know better :smile:


Ummmm Thanks but no thanks
Joke
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Dont get jealous about my looks laugh laugh laugh

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:18 AM



um..
Not sure, maybe the one that would date me would know better :smile:


Ummmm Thanks but no thanks
Joke
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Dont get jealous about my looks laugh laugh laugh


I'm jealous of your looks, but you know what they say "Don't hate me because I'm beautiful"

robert1652's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:18 AM


You wrote

Do I sound bitter and jaded? eh, maybe a little.....laugh laugh laugh laugh

But I'm sure someone could make a list about women with the same definitions....and I'm ok with that too....we're crazy, no doubts about that...bigsmile

Answers
Only you know the answer to that one and I believe you gave the answer

secondly ask any expert in dating The first date is to decide if you want to see that person second time and you could do this by exchanging phone numbers so you don't have to reject someone face to face

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I am a dating expert....of bad dates....laugh


You win some you loose some can't win them all and incidentally though I confess having dated Mrs Doubtfire's twin sister I can tell you I always can find something at least funny to tell about them
Have a great Earth day

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robert1652's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:20 AM



um..
Not sure, maybe the one that would date me would know better :smile:


Ummmm Thanks but no thanks
Joke
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Dont get jealous about my looks laugh laugh laugh


I meant you are too good for me and you deserve better.

tearsofblood666's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:23 AM
laugh laugh laugh
<<<< you guys find that beautiful huh?
thought it was creepy

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:24 AM

laugh laugh laugh
<<<< you guys find that beautiful huh?
thought it was creepy


I like creepy.....devil

no photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:27 AM
creepy...works for me....phit...phit...phit...laugh laugh

TheShadow's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:27 AM
The genuinely great guy- Not to be mistaken for the "nice" guy. He says and does what he says he does, and is GENUINE about it. Unfortunatly, sometimes things don't click. This guy is the diamond.


Had to eddit it, this is medrinker

tearsofblood666's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:27 AM
laugh laugh funny i do too

Thrain5's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:32 AM
Oddly enough, I seem to fit "The genuinely great guy" definition. I say 'oddly enough' because I have had those times when I have been a total jerk. And there are definitely times when I have totally missed the significance of whatever happened.

And I have to say (soap-box time). It is too bad that there are so many guys out there that are jerks. They just ruin the ways girls approach guys. Those of us who really are the "great guys" have to first work their way through everything the assholes did before we have a decent shot.

Totage's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:33 AM

In my dating experience there are a few catagories of men....here's a few.

The genuinely great guy- Not to be mistaken for the "nice" guy. He says and does all the right things, and is GENUINE about it. Unfortunatly, sometimes things don't click. This guy is the diamond.

The emotional sponge- This guy loves emotional attention from ALOT of women, a casa nova as it were, however, he gives just enough with no commitment, to be elusive, and when questioned about his commitment to you, he runs...he can't afford to lose the attention from the other ladies right?

The physical sponge- self explanitory. See definition of emotional sponge but add sex and minus any emotion at all.

The yes man- This guy can't tell anyone NO, he will break plans with you, to go do something for someone else, Very similar to the "nice" guy.

The mentally instable- things are going fine, and then out of the blue when you say something as benine as "I just love spring" he flips out and yells about how spring is the devils work.

Stage 5 clinger- After one date he names your children, picks siding colors for your new house, and asks "Should we have the wedding in the states or would you rather go out of the country for it?"

The NICE guy- Has no back bone, will break plans because his brother's wife's aunt's daughter's friend's sister is in the hospital with the flu and he should really go see her. He does things for what seems to be for you, but in reality wants something in return for it, and gets angry and says things like "God, I'm such a nice guy, why do I always get the short end of the stick" Can't tell another woman that he is seeing you, because an eon ago they flirted once, and that might break her heart.

Can't nail down guy- Everything about the date is great, things went smooth, and as long as he calls the shots, he's fine, but if you ask "Wow, I'd really like to see you again" his reply is "Why do women want to tie me down?"

Do I sound bitter and jaded? eh, maybe a little.....laugh laugh laugh

But I'm sure someone could make a list about women with the same definitions....and I'm ok with that too....we're crazy, no doubts about that...bigsmile


I'm the different kind of guy.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:38 AM
flowerforyou flowerforyou for all of the wonderful men that have shared, thanks, however...you don't KNOW who you are, cuz you can be different to every women. Just saying. flowerforyou flowerforyou

GAWD, where's my ladies to back me up on this huh?huh

Thrain5's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:40 AM
Oddly enough, I seem to fit "The genuinely great guy" definition. I say 'oddly enough' because I have had those times when I have been a total jerk. And there are definitely times when I have totally missed the significance of whatever happened.

And I have to say (soap-box time). It is too bad that there are so many guys out there that are jerks. They just ruin the ways girls approach guys. Those of us who really are the "great guys" have to first work their way through everything the assholes did before we have a decent shot.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/22/08 11:41 AM

Oddly enough, I seem to fit "The genuinely great guy" definition. I say 'oddly enough' because I have had those times when I have been a total jerk. And there are definitely times when I have totally missed the significance of whatever happened.

And I have to say (soap-box time). It is too bad that there are so many guys out there that are jerks. They just ruin the ways girls approach guys. Those of us who really are the "great guys" have to first work their way through everything the assholes did before we have a decent shot.


Oh careful you are treading on "nice guy" ground here....