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my daughter has a friend and they are good friends but she ha a boyfriend and he is jealous for real they tried to get along together then all heck broke out this morning they got into a fight and her friend wouldnt even fight back.it really hurt me because i like both of them maybe race is an issue he hispanic and my daughter boyfriend is black he thinks they are too close and want her to break the friendship why cant we just have friends of the oppsite sex without all this drama. He had taken some pills that he mixed with liquor and she didnt wont him to drive home so he spent the nite at their apartment she went to work and when she got home he was still nocked out until her boyfriend saw him using the bathroom and he became very angry and jumped on him in front of the kids and she was trying to break it up so he told her to choose between them.
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sounds like high school drama.........
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2 words! GROW UP!
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It really is a shame. How old are they? I know my 21 year old daughter runs into the same issues with her 23 year old b/f. Maybe it's a maturity thing.
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Just say No to the blue box, This could be your X-significant other
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I KNOW IT IS HARD BUT I WOULD JUST STAY OUT OF IT BECAUSE THEY WILL DO WHAT-EVER THEY WANT TO/NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY...
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for real she is 28 and the guys are 32
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which one
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my daughter is 28 and her friend 32 and boyfriend 32
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im not in it just asking for some advice and all i cansee is that they were all fine what happened is what i dont understand
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I would tell the boyfriend to deal with his jelousy before returning to my house. If he can't deal w/ it.....then don't return! Jealousy is a form of control and has no place in a relationship. JMO
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I have a nineteen year olf friend like that. One moment she is crazy about her boyfriend and then the next she doesn't like him. So she goes with another one and then there is something wrong with him. She is accumalating a real fan club of broken hearts. I thought about giving her advice then I thought better of it. I liked what popcorn said.
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I would tell the boyfriend to deal with his jelousy before returning to my house. If he can't deal w/ it.....then don't return! Jealousy is a form of control and has no place in a relationship. JMO Well said darlin!!! |
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2 words! GROW UP! 4 real!!!!Whats the problem she may have saved a few lives by not letting him drive under the influence did he think about that? |
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2 words! GROW UP! 4 real!!!!Whats the problem she may have saved a few lives by not letting him drive under the influence did he think about that? |
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Time for her to get rid of the boyfriend...
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Humm my best friend is a guy and we are strictly friends only he has stayed at my place before up to 6 months when he had no place to go. But... we still remained friends only nothing ever happen between us. Sorry if someone was to be so shallow as to tell me to pick between them and my friend shshsh the friend has been here a hell of a lot longer and will be here after they are gone. Soooooooooooooooo guess the friend stays
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A majority of my friends are male and there is nothing but friendship. When I was in a relationship he didnt like it but I told him that nobody will make me choose. If I was to be given an ultimatum, he would have gotten his walking papers. Sounds like the boyfriend is controlling and he should be told to hit the road. He needs to get over the insecurity.
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insecure people..
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