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Edited by
wickedlluccy
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Mon 04/21/08 08:37 PM
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Guess not. what I'm saying, You can't enjoy a serious relationship if it's a bad one. So why stay in it? ...no because they have been damaged by the past psychologically and need help to learn how to re-program with new healthy feelings about relationships....peccy where are you getin this stuff...your too smart for that......bs |
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Edited by
Corrupted
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Mon 04/21/08 08:36 PM
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because they are ignorant of the fact that no one changes along with that constant fear that they will never get away.
That's what women fail to understand. |
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Serious relationships can be like death to two people who should not be together or are not a functioning well personally, ie drugs abuse, alcohol abuse, etc....
I would like a companionable, considerate, respectful, mutually motivated, loving, sexy relationship to be serious in but if I cannot get there then I would rather be alone. |
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because they are ignorant of the fact that no one changes along with that constant fear that they will never get away. That's what women fail to understand. |
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I've been told that new relationships feel like chocolate.
I think chocolate is easier... 
...and with no bitter aftertaste! 
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because they are ignorant of the fact that no one changes along with that constant fear that they will never get away. That's what women fail to understand. I've never heard of a woman beating a man.. |
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because they are ignorant of the fact that no one changes along with that constant fear that they will never get away. That's what women fail to understand. ...thats even more crap...anyone can change...but change takes admission of wrong or damaged behavior...you guys scare me is this really the crap people are buyin these days....how hopeless...not my world...and Ive seen it and I have friends and fam been thru it.... |
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serious relationships??...  
s-t-r-e-t-c-h ...yes...shew...i feel better 
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That's just it.
No one should have to go through it... Ever. Staying in an abusive relationship is one's own self stupidity. So you know people who've been through it. Why did they stay? Damaged Psychologically? I think not. |
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because they are ignorant of the fact that no one changes along with that constant fear that they will never get away. That's what women fail to understand. I've never heard of a woman beating a man.. Trust me, it happens. Hell try living in CA and you'll see all kinds of things... |
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because they are ignorant of the fact that no one changes along with that constant fear that they will never get away. That's what women fail to understand. I've never heard of a woman beating a man.. it happens all the time dear...men do get abused...it just either gets over looked..or the men feel ashamed..what ever the reason..but it happens... men arant always taken seiously when they are being abused.. it's the messed up society... |
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That's just it. No one should have to go through it... Ever. Staying in an abusive relationship is one's own self stupidity. So you know people who've been through it. Why did they stay? Damaged Psychologically? I think not. ...and you are how old and a psychology major or maybe you are a M.D. already..... ...help me Rhonda...you go ahead and think not sweety I've been a single parent longer than you have been alive....I just mighta learned a thing or two thru that.....and I've never pulled age rank on this site b4 but I HATE IGNORENCE THAT DRESSES IT SELF AS INTELEGENT THOUGHT !!!! |
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no disrespect..but..i feel at 18 you need to experience life a bit more..before u can keep up with ur debate...
just look at our youths today..they are all getting beat up girls and girls,girls and boys,,boys and boys,,and girls on boys etc.. think about it... |
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That's just it. No one should have to go through it... Ever. Staying in an abusive relationship is one's own self stupidity. So you know people who've been through it. Why did they stay? Damaged Psychologically? I think not. Well, I have worked in battered women's shelters, and yes some women stay for self fulfilling prophesies. Some women stay because they have children to feed. And some women stay because they feel like they can't do any better. The list could go on and on...and until I understood I said the same thing... Then I found myself in one, and although it didn't take me long to realize that is what it was.... I stayed longer than most people would have. Why did I stay as long as I did? I don't know to this day. Don't judge til you know all the facts of the matter. Take that as some good sound advise.... Until you are there, and walk in those shoes...Don't judge. |
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Sorry, eh
Truth hurts But you can't let the past hold you back. There comes a time when you've got to get over it and look into the future. Ignorance dressed as inteligence? please. you're just making excuses for women who don't have the courage to move onward. quite pitiful. |
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That's just it. No one should have to go through it... Ever. Staying in an abusive relationship is one's own self stupidity. So you know people who've been through it. Why did they stay? Damaged Psychologically? I think not.    
Well, I have worked in battered women's shelters, and yes some women stay for self fulfilling prophesies. Some women stay because they have children to feed. And some women stay because they feel like they can't do any better. The list could go on and on...and until I understood I said the same thing... Then I found myself in one, and although it didn't take me long to realize that is what it was.... I stayed longer than most people would have. Why did I stay as long as I did? I don't know to this day. Don't judge til you know all the facts of the matter. Take that as some good sound advise.... Until you are there, and walk in those shoes...Don't judge. |
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Sorry, eh Truth hurts But you can't let the past hold you back. There comes a time when you've got to get over it and look into the future. Ignorance dressed as inteligence? please. you're just making excuses for women who don't have the courage to move onward. quite pitiful. Listen little girl, let me tell you a thing or two about courage... Nah, never mind...my typed words would be waisted on you... |
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I've experienced enough to know better.
Just cause I'm 18 don't doubt me. I wouldn't be pushing this topic if i didn't. |
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I've experienced enough to know better. Just cause I'm 18 don't doubt me. I wouldn't be pushing this topic if i didn't. ...and I repeat !!!!!! ...and you are how old and a psychology major or maybe you are a M.D. already..... ...help me Rhonda...you go ahead and think not sweety I've been a single parent longer than you have been alive....I just mighta learned a thing or two thru that.....and I've never pulled age rank on this site b4 but I HATE IGNORENCE THAT DRESSES IT SELF AS INTELEGENT THOUGHT !!!! ...gawd I have shoes from high school older than you (thirty yrs old as a matter of fact)....gimme a break...and how many years did you endure this marriage...and if it was your folks I'm sorry know one ever got you help....your not going to get any respect making blanket unsubstantiated comments...I'm sure a lot of women on this site have been in abusive relationships of several different types......I was educated against such a mistake so the minute the verbal started I was gone....but I know how lucky I was, I was surrounded by domestic abuse, all my life, but I wanted to know what caused it so I educated myself with collage classes and work in domestic abuse centers..... and your ed came from where.... |
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