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Topic: Why do women hate each other?
briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Mon 04/21/08 06:02 PM
I think because they have such a short shelf life, so any attention taken away from them by another woman is a threatening

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Mon 04/21/08 06:02 PM
I think it is alot of times jealousy.. BINGO ...driven by insecurity a lot of times

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:02 PM
My understanding is that women are backstabbers (known to each other....) Most of the women I meet are friends with men for that reason.... The thing that gets me is that if women don't hang out with other women because they are backstabbers, what are the men supposed to think????? I have wonderful female friends that I would trust with my life. Women are not backstabbers any more than men are.

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Mon 04/21/08 06:02 PM
I think because they have such a short shelf life, so any attention taken away from them by another woman is a threatening OH NO YOU DIH - INT!!

Shaden Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 6118	Mon 04/21/08 06:03 PM
Women are my friends and sisters, do not hate them, at all. I only want good things for my friends and they for me.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:03 PM
It's all about competition. You see, they want to be the hottest lady at the bar/restaurant/coffee house/mechanic's place, and the sight of a lady of potentially-conflicting hotness will result in their getting catty and cutting each other down. While they won't necessarily outright hate each other (in most cases, that is), they WILL use snide comments and under-the-breath insults. Of course, there's also the occasional catfight as well, but that's for a set of totally different reasons. Or not. I have no inclination to be the hottest lady anywhere. That is an unfair generalization, Moof.

Native_Grl39 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 5196	Mon 04/21/08 06:03 PM
I don't hate other women...BUT what I dislike and that is in anyone is someone pretending to be something they aren't..If you have something to say to me...say it to my face..NOT behind my back or under the guise of being a friend when you're not...and we will get along fine because I don't work that way!!!!!!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:04 PM
I think it is alot of times jealousy.. BINGO ...driven by insecurity a lot of times Right, and men are never insecure.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:05 PM
I think because they have such a short shelf life, so any attention taken away from them by another woman is a threatening That is a really ugly and nasty thing to say.

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Mon 04/21/08 06:05 PM
I don't hate other women...BUT what I dislike and that is in anyone is someone pretending to be something they aren't..If you have something to say to me...say it to my face..NOT behind my back or under the guise of being a friend when you're not...and we will get along fine because I don't work that way!!!!!!! Ditto Shell... (Shes the real deal fellas...I know )

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Mon 04/21/08 06:05 PM
I think it is alot of times jealousy.. BINGO ...driven by insecurity a lot of times Right, and men are never insecure. They are but they don't go after other men nearly as much.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:05 PM
I think it is alot of times jealousy.. BINGO ...driven by insecurity a lot of times Right, and men are never insecure. They are but they don't go after other men nearly as much. Men don't fight? OK

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Mon 04/21/08 06:07 PM Edited by CleanBathroom on Mon 04/21/08 06:07 PM
Oh men fight. They just don't destroy each other from afar ... again .... NEARLY as much. Exceptions to every rule.

Native_Grl39 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 5196	Mon 04/21/08 06:08 PM
I don't hate other women...BUT what I dislike and that is in anyone is someone pretending to be something they aren't..If you have something to say to me...say it to my face..NOT behind my back or under the guise of being a friend when you're not...and we will get along fine because I don't work that way!!!!!!! Ditto Shell... (Shes the real deal fellas...I know ) Yes...I can't handle crap...for one I'm waaaaayyyyyy to old for it and for 2 I dont have to...Thanx doll....Miss is the real deal too..we have been good friends for ages....Luv ya doll...

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Mon 04/21/08 06:08 PM
I think because they have such a short shelf life, so any attention taken away from them by another woman is a threatening I didn't realize we came with an expiration date

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:09 PM
I think threads that generalize anyone are hurtful.

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Mon 04/21/08 06:09 PM
I don't hate other women...BUT what I dislike and that is in anyone is someone pretending to be something they aren't..If you have something to say to me...say it to my face..NOT behind my back or under the guise of being a friend when you're not...and we will get along fine because I don't work that way!!!!!!! Ditto Shell... (Shes the real deal fellas...I know ) Yes...I can't handle crap...for one I'm waaaaayyyyyy to old for it and for 2 I dont have to...Thanx doll....Miss is the real deal too..we have been good friends for ages....Luv ya doll... Love you too sweetie!!!

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Mon 04/21/08 06:10 PM
I think threads that generalize anyone are hurtful. sorry

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 04/21/08 06:11 PM
I think threads that generalize anyone are hurtful. sorry that's ok. How do you feel when you see a thread that says "why are all guys liars?" It just gets me. We do not all hate each other; and encouraging people to say that we do ..well, it doesn't help.

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Mon 04/21/08 06:12 PM
I think threads that generalize anyone are hurtful. And without purpose. Love ya, Hiker