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Topic: Not going anywhere
Anonwho Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 174	Sat 04/19/08 07:52 PM
I have tried to talk to someone who is a mutual match. We seemed to kick off to a great start, but lately it seem the conversation is always dry, and I feel I am not getting anywhere with her. Any suggestions to help boost the conversations a little.

kirk443 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 5723	Sat 04/19/08 07:53 PM
I have tried to talk to someone who is a mutual match. We seemed to kick off to a great start, but lately it seem the conversation is always dry, and I feel I am not getting anywhere with her. Any suggestions to help boost the conversations a little. well --just be yourself.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 04/19/08 07:53 PM
You talking e-mails or messenger?

crazy_lover Joined Tue 03/18/08 Posts: 444	Sat 04/19/08 07:53 PM
maybe theres nothing there

Anonwho Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 174	Sat 04/19/08 07:54 PM
You talking e-mails or messenger? Messanger

neo30 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 203	Sat 04/19/08 07:55 PM
find out her hobbies go from there or look for another match theres plenty out there

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Sat 04/19/08 07:55 PM
maybe theres nothing there I will have to agree

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 04/19/08 07:55 PM
I have tried to talk to someone who is a mutual match. We seemed to kick off to a great start, but lately it seem the conversation is always dry, and I feel I am not getting anywhere with her. Any suggestions to help boost the conversations a little. It happens.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sat 04/19/08 07:56 PM
Have you talked about family? Religion? Politics? Your careers? Goals?

Anonwho Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 174	Sat 04/19/08 07:56 PM
find out her hobbies go from there or look for another match theres plenty out there Ive been here for a couple months and have two matches. One just recent "two days ago", and the other a couple weeks. BUT I HAVE BEEN HERE FOR A COUPLE MONTHS.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 04/19/08 07:57 PM
Try asking about her feelings and positions on some issues to get you through the dry spells. I was talking to a friend here and once all the basics had been covered, we were both like...ok, what now? Ummm....???? That's what we did and I learned a lot about his views on an assortment of things.

FAK Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 7817	Sat 04/19/08 07:57 PM
Mutual Match....over 50,000 relationships made can't be wrong

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Sat 04/19/08 07:59 PM
I wish I could help you out. None of my Mutual Matches can come up with anything more scintillating than "I don't know what to write here."

Anonwho Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 174	Sat 04/19/08 07:59 PM
Try asking about her feelings and positions on some issues to get you through the dry spells. I was talking to a friend here and once all the basics had been covered, we were both like...ok, what now? Ummm....???? That's what we did and I learned a lot about his views on an assortment of things. Thank you for this "HELPFUL" advice.

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