YOU need to find YOUR nich in the forums,,,
To STAND OUT over other as a "YOU" type thing..
Like,,,The way you say hi to someone on a post?
The way you say goodbye there?

Your personality,,,funny,,,BE FUNNY,
Pissy,,,,be PISSY..
ECT???

The MORE you post and PEOPLE HERE get to READ YOU and SEE you.
THEY will feel they know you and YOU will through ALL that you SHOW HERE in TYPE,,,,become to ALL of us,,,,YOU (dks6457)


Lets just say that YOUR trade mark on ANY reply was
Giggles,,Hi.

Giggles Goodnight now.

People here will pick up on YOU USING GIGGLES,
FASTER than you just being a typed ,,,Hi,,,or Goodnight.

Just a little thing that I have seen on here..

AND, also SOMEONE who views you alot,,and you find THEM cute,,,EMAIL THEM?
SAY hey, I seen ya peekin at me,,you want to talk?

OR something like that??
But hopfully some of this will HELP ya get YOUR angle going.
So YOU get seen here, and make some good friends...
GREAT LUCK TO YOU!!!!

I say you should either start making the first move or go on a different site.... for me I choose to allow things to happen naturally, because let's face it men on this site and men period want sex and at 50, men your age want women my age. I am not sure if this advice helps you in anyway, but you want a man too badly and that is never a good thing.

Yes it is poss.; sites shows who views your profile.
Go to account & click on views last 30 days.
Librarian, don't worry about it, your lookin good.

Sorry to disagree, but last thing I want is a 20 something arm candy. Don't want to do all the training.

...THIS IS EXCELLANT ADVICE ....lol...lol...all you gotta do is read my s**t and you can tell 'Im busting w/personality....loll...and I dont pull punches, tell it like it is, still met me a wonderful guy here (I'm edgy and he likes me that way!!!)

luccy, one HOT pic.

i used to do that but no one ever ever e-mailed me back...

How do you change your body type? It is what it is. Or do you mean "lie about your body type"?


That'll go over well when they finally meet.

oops.

What's my niche, Terry?

its okay no one messages me either

not all men want women your age. Who told you that?

Some people like to play with kids their own age.

Actually guys your age like women my age.

Go figure.

You have a very CRISP since of humor, its BOLD.
So THAT in my mind is YOUR center as to people liking to read you.
But YOUR also very full of heart, and THAT KEEPS THEM READING YA,wink,lol,lol

Replies and emails and such come from those who care and want to take the chance to get to know someone. As in real life, in the real world, begging for dates just don't work. Be yourself and post often in the forums and sooner or later, you'll get that email. Freindships develope, they don't just appear as if magic had something to do with it. I have been on this site for some time, not real long, but have made some great friends, and still don't recieve many emails. IT TAKES TIME!!!

thanks all for the reply, i have been in the forums, meaning what iam doing now is this correct? I put a "few extra lbs." because its true, i'm a take me or leave me gal, and i just lost 16.6 lbs: and go to the gym most days of the week but still won't change that body type till i am at where i want to be. On the other site i lets me know you has viewed my profile and i get many repeaters but it stops there, oh well any interested in sweeping me off my feet? I live in NH

the more i post the less e-mails i get i think people are scared of me

thanks good sugestions and i do take the initiative and start conntact many timews still gets me no where and shoot i'm adorable lol

In my experiance here. My man signed up for the site, I saw him and knew I wanted to talk to him. I mailed him, and the rest is history. Love at last!! So if you see something you want, go get it. If you don't get replies, move on to the next...you will meet someone!!

yes you are

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