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FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 04/15/08 04:35 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? Meh, happens...I do it sometimes...can't be bothered with outlandish expectations for a relationship to work that is hours away from me, my moped won't get that far.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 04:50 PM
MISSION ACCOMPLISHED, HUH?? Inteligents of great minds, are still SIMPLE MINDS, when they TRY to be CLEVER with THEIR DIRECTION of their desired interests. Sorry it takes me sooooooooooooooooo long to type BACK, And THATS JUST ME TO,lol,lol

Brenda_Darling Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 3696	Tue 04/15/08 04:52 PM Edited by Brenda_Darling on Tue 04/15/08 04:53 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? yeah its happened...The reason...I was too old...(i was 18 he was 17)SORRY i'm not a 15year old bimbo!!!!!!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 05:00 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? yeah its happened...The reason...I was too old...(i was 18 he was 17)SORRY i'm not a 15year old bimbo!!!!!! I can understand that one,,thanks...

AngeBrulant Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 3643	Tue 04/15/08 05:03 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? I know I have this problem sometimes Like in a relationship, I'll be really hyper and obsessive and then it just kind of fades, because I put so much into the beginning that there's nothing to stretch out to make it last. But I swear I'm trying to get better! And I hope you can find someone who wants to keep you around

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 05:04 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? Meh, happens...I do it sometimes...can't be bothered with outlandish expectations for a relationship to work that is hours away from me, my moped won't get that far. lol,,Yes but ya get GREAT gas mileage!!! And yes, I have had that happen from me,,,but I always TRY to tell them why....one once, I read their email, then forgot to reply back to them....It was hurtful to them. And I made it right..but sometimes just one over-looked email, can cause lots of pain to someone else....

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 04/15/08 05:07 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? Meh, happens...I do it sometimes...can't be bothered with outlandish expectations for a relationship to work that is hours away from me, my moped won't get that far. lol,,Yes but ya get GREAT gas mileage!!! And yes, I have had that happen from me,,,but I always TRY to tell them why....one once, I read their email, then forgot to reply back to them....It was hurtful to them. And I made it right..but sometimes just one over-looked email, can cause lots of pain to someone else.... I suppose I see things differently. I don't see how it can be hurtful when they don't even know the person all that well, that on top of the lowered expectations of internet dating as a whole (I'm not saying this to be personal but this is a general thought behind internet dating). With those in mind, we can either let go and continue our merry way or hold on to that one person that didn't e-mail us back. Personally I carry on as I know how this works, that and I'm here for friends in the first place.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 05:08 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? I know I have this problem sometimes Like in a relationship, I'll be really hyper and obsessive and then it just kind of fades, because I put so much into the beginning that there's nothing to stretch out to make it last. But I swear I'm trying to get better! And I hope you can find someone who wants to keep you around THANK YOU, I do to,lol,lol.. But I don't feel its always the talks or whats in them..I think that with SOME, They just find another person to be theit apple in their eye for that time in life here..? Just a thought.. And I might talk to much,lol.. But most ladies have told me they appreciate a guy who can make their mind think...

AngeBrulant Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 3643	Tue 04/15/08 05:12 PM
Well I'd rather there be too much talking versus dead silence nods

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 05:15 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? Meh, happens...I do it sometimes...can't be bothered with outlandish expectations for a relationship to work that is hours away from me, my moped won't get that far. lol,,Yes but ya get GREAT gas mileage!!! And yes, I have had that happen from me,,,but I always TRY to tell them why....one once, I read their email, then forgot to reply back to them....It was hurtful to them. And I made it right..but sometimes just one over-looked email, can cause lots of pain to someone else.... I suppose I see things differently. I don't see how it can be hurtful when they don't even know the person all that well, that on top of the lowered expectations of internet dating as a whole (I'm not saying this to be personal but this is a general thought behind internet dating). With those in mind, we can either let go and continue our merry way or hold on to that one person that didn't e-mail us back. Personally I carry on as I know how this works, that and I'm here for friends in the first place. Well, I move on to, but w/o any reason to their absents?? One is left a bit thinking on WOW,,wonder if I pi$$ed them off or something??? lol,lol So I like to know, but don't HAVE to know..lol But to ablib on hurting,,,I had one give me a week and 100 emails, just to work at making me feel them,,,very liking of me,lol THEN to tell me it was ALL A JOKE, fake profile fake name, fake story...and all. SO that STAYED with me awhile as the PLOT behind her actions,,,was ONLY because of her and friends reading my profile and NOT liking what it said about BIG WOMEN.. So,,,wow,,,,whos next to attack over how someone feels,,and to what MIGHT be THEIR extent of pain...lol Sad place here sometimes...

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 04/15/08 05:25 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? T -- I'm usually the one who gets bored and ends things when I just can't fake any interest in someone who has less intellect than an armadillo wearing a red hat. Why get involved with someone like that in the first place? Ahhhh, that's another issue for another time. But there have been times when I've been dumped, and it's almost always because -- in their words -- "I thought I would be able to domesticate you, but you just refuse to cooperate." I just don't think I would make a passable goat.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 08:36 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? T -- I'm usually the one who gets bored and ends things when I just can't fake any interest in someone who has less intellect than an armadillo wearing a red hat. Why get involved with someone like that in the first place? Ahhhh, that's another issue for another time. But there have been times when I've been dumped, and it's almost always because -- in their words -- "I thought I would be able to domesticate you, but you just refuse to cooperate." I just don't think I would make a passable goat. WOW,,,I don't think so either,,,but wait,,,, was THAT a liama or a goat pic in your profile?? LOL,LOL,LOl

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 04/15/08 08:48 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? Meh, happens...I do it sometimes...can't be bothered with outlandish expectations for a relationship to work that is hours away from me, my moped won't get that far. lol,,Yes but ya get GREAT gas mileage!!! And yes, I have had that happen from me,,,but I always TRY to tell them why....one once, I read their email, then forgot to reply back to them....It was hurtful to them. And I made it right..but sometimes just one over-looked email, can cause lots of pain to someone else.... I suppose I see things differently. I don't see how it can be hurtful when they don't even know the person all that well, that on top of the lowered expectations of internet dating as a whole (I'm not saying this to be personal but this is a general thought behind internet dating). With those in mind, we can either let go and continue our merry way or hold on to that one person that didn't e-mail us back. Personally I carry on as I know how this works, that and I'm here for friends in the first place. Well, I move on to, but w/o any reason to their absents?? One is left a bit thinking on WOW,,wonder if I pi$$ed them off or something??? lol,lol So I like to know, but don't HAVE to know..lol But to ablib on hurting,,,I had one give me a week and 100 emails, just to work at making me feel them,,,very liking of me,lol THEN to tell me it was ALL A JOKE, fake profile fake name, fake story...and all. SO that STAYED with me awhile as the PLOT behind her actions,,,was ONLY because of her and friends reading my profile and NOT liking what it said about BIG WOMEN.. So,,,wow,,,,whos next to attack over how someone feels,,and to what MIGHT be THEIR extent of pain...lol Sad place here sometimes... that was just wrong. You are entitled to your preferences regarding big women. And I am as big as they come.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 04/15/08 08:49 PM
Then they don't care to talk to you much at all? How many has THIS happen to here???? And did THEY give you any reasons WHY?? T -- I'm usually the one who gets bored and ends things when I just can't fake any interest in someone who has less intellect than an armadillo wearing a red hat. Why get involved with someone like that in the first place? Ahhhh, that's another issue for another time. But there have been times when I've been dumped, and it's almost always because -- in their words -- "I thought I would be able to domesticate you, but you just refuse to cooperate." I just don't think I would make a passable goat. I am surprised that you don't get a lot of women who just want to pick your brain. There is so much interesting stuff in there!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 04/15/08 08:54 PM
I am surprised that you don't get a lot of women who just want to pick your brain. There is so much interesting stuff in there! One of my closest (female) friends, who I have known for 20 years, says women don't want to deal with a guy who's too intelligent. I can't read minds, but my experience would tend to support her statement.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 04/15/08 08:58 PM
I am surprised that you don't get a lot of women who just want to pick your brain. There is so much interesting stuff in there! One of my closest (female) friends, who I have known for 20 years, says women don't want to deal with a guy who's too intelligent. I can't read minds, but my experience would tend to support her statement. Lex, it might just be that your to smart for your on pants,,,lol the next LINE,,should come from a women,lol,lol,lol

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Tue 04/15/08 09:00 PM
I am surprised that you don't get a lot of women who just want to pick your brain. There is so much interesting stuff in there! One of my closest (female) friends, who I have known for 20 years, says women don't want to deal with a guy who's too intelligent. I can't read minds, but my experience would tend to support her statement. I think I might, but I have never found one.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Tue 04/15/08 11:22 PM
I am surprised that you don't get a lot of women who just want to pick your brain. There is so much interesting stuff in there! One of my closest (female) friends, who I have known for 20 years, says women don't want to deal with a guy who's too intelligent. I can't read minds, but my experience would tend to support her statement. I think I might, but I have never found one. that was a quote from a dumb woman then... here is my favorite quote. stimulate my mind, you can have my body. Touch my soul, and I'm your forever.