Topic: dating and kids
Silntstrnger's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:22 AM
yes i would date a guy with children..

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Thu 04/10/08 07:22 AM


i don't agree that those who don't have children don't know. I don't have children and I will never be able to have my own, but I work with kids, teens, and let me tell you when one of them hugs me and tells me about their day it makes my heart sing.


agreed, however, when it's your own child, it's 10 times better


sometimes things dont need to get any better. its perfect how it is. flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 04/10/08 07:22 AM

men, would you date a woman with children??

and

ladies, would you date a man with children??

for me, ive been there and done that, and i wouldnt again.

be interesting to see your replies. flowerforyou flowerforyou

can u come india for me i like to date with udrinker flowerforyou

ellgee1976's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:25 AM

sometimes things dont need to get any better. its perfect how it is. flowerforyou flowerforyou


never did i say it's not a good experience to have if it's not your own, i simply said when it is, it's 10 times better..

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Thu 04/10/08 07:25 AM


men, would you date a woman with children??

and

ladies, would you date a man with children??

for me, ive been there and done that, and i wouldnt again.

be interesting to see your replies. flowerforyou flowerforyou

can u come india for me i like to date with udrinker flowerforyou


urm....thanks :smile:

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Thu 04/10/08 07:26 AM


sometimes things dont need to get any better. its perfect how it is. flowerforyou flowerforyou


never did i say it's not a good experience to have if it's not your own, i simply said when it is, it's 10 times better..


im just saying if i have my own child, it may not be 10 times better as i love my neice like my own, me and my mom raised her. if it is ten times better thats a bonus happy flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 04/10/08 07:32 AM
if i met a man who had a baby, then i would be ok with it, as the child will know me from a very early age. otherwise its not for me.

Tameka's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:49 AM
Of course. For a couple of reasons. You can never have too much family. Also, by the time you reach my age almost everyone i meet has children. Myself included.

Salemite's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:52 AM

men, would you date a woman with children??


I have before and would do it again.

Flirtyvirgo's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:57 AM
yes I would date a guy with kids, I have 2 children!

wickedlluccy's photo
Thu 04/10/08 07:58 AM
ohwell yeah, I have and would...but I seem to be growing outa that phase...really want a guy whom is looking to concentrate on the one on one aspect of adult life...single parenting has taken so much of that away from me...would rather find some one whom wants me all to him selfbigsmile

:heart:~wicked~:heart:

wiley's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:00 AM
Yes. Kids aren't an issue.

iamlookingforyou2's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:01 AM
Yeah I would rather date a guy who has children because I have a daughter and I want someone that would respect the fact that she is part of my life and there has to be time for her too. So if he has children he would know all about that.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:03 AM
I'm going to play devils advocate and say no.

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Thu 04/10/08 08:05 AM

I'm going to play devils advocate and say no.


your not the devils advocate.

your entitled to your opinion, and i feel the same as you,i tried it and it didnt work.

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Thu 04/10/08 08:08 AM
I would rather date a woman who has kids...Preferably around the same ages.
They know what being a parent is like...My little girl is very important to me...If it is to be a long term relationship there has to be some kind of positive connection between them...

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:09 AM
From personal experience I've gotten attatched to (someone I've been in a relationship with) children just to get that double broken heart when I caught her sleeping with another man in my bed?

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:17 AM
From personal experience I have had the unpleasant experience of being in a relationship with someone who has children and who has a bitter non workable ugly relationship with their ex and I've had to endure screaming matches beyond par when the ex comes to pick up the children for visitation. Sorry no drama mamas.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:29 AM
And I've had the beyond contempt heartbreaking experience of dating a woman who has used their own child as a weapon. I can't say I never would date another woman with children. But I'd rather not ever experience what I have again. I love children. I can't give or help them enough. But I'm not intentionally seeking a woman with children. I don't mean to sound selfish. But I'm 42 and childless. I missed the boat on having kids. I live a totally different life than everyone else. But I do have an open mind so credit me for that.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 04/10/08 08:41 AM
And don't ask me how I got one sister and one niece and one nephew but yet I'm an uncle to 19 kids. And don't ask me how I became the godfather to 35 kids. Said yes, went to the baptism, and now the hallmark card store knows me by my first name because I'm in there every week buying birthday cards for those crazy godchildren. Need a pc just to keep track of the birthdates and anniversaries and whatnot. I got two this weekend. Sheesh!