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NeedaLife Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 203	Wed 04/09/08 12:12 PM
ask someone if they are single. You are just getitng to know someone new and you are thinking you could really get into this person. When & how do you ask them if they are single? Right away? Do you wait to see if the person seems attracted to you?

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 04/09/08 12:13 PM
ask someone if they are single. You are just getitng to know someone new and you are thinking you could really get into this person. When & how do you ask them if they are single? Right away? Do you wait to see if the person seems attracted to you? straight out, excuse are you single?

62easygoing Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 4641	Wed 04/09/08 12:14 PM
be very prompt with this

rebkel Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 205	Wed 04/09/08 12:14 PM
ask someone if they are single. You are just getitng to know someone new and you are thinking you could really get into this person. When & how do you ask them if they are single? Right away? Do you wait to see if the person seems attracted to you? I try to slip it in conversation. If they say they go camping a lot or something, you could say "Oh, you and your girlfriend must really enjoy that?" And of course, they either agree or correct you by saying they are single. You can almost always throw in something like that during a chat.

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Wed 04/09/08 12:16 PM
ofcourse they could lie and tell you they are single just to get a peice of something different because after all who likes eating cheerios for breakfast every morning

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Wed 04/09/08 12:16 PM
Or just use the old favorite by saying yeah sure your girlfriend would like that too. heheh they will either say yes meaning they have a girlfriend or ohhhh I dont have a girl friend. Hummm then they are free game but yeah I ask soon why wait lol

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Wed 04/09/08 12:17 PM
ofcourse they could lie and tell you they are single just to get a peice of something different because after all who likes eating cheerios for breakfast every morning Hummm huhhhhh now we know how you are

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 04/09/08 12:18 PM
Be direct.

NeedaLife Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 203	Wed 04/09/08 12:18 PM
ofcourse they could lie and tell you they are single just to get a peice of something different because after all who likes eating cheerios for breakfast every morning So you are saying I shouldn't even bother to ask.

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Wed 04/09/08 12:19 PM
lol no you should ask I mean after all most people are honest arent they

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Wed 04/09/08 12:20 PM
If while you are out and they keep looking at their watch or their cell phone rings and they say excuse me I have to take this call then they are not single.

NeedaLife Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 203	Wed 04/09/08 12:21 PM
ask someone if they are single. You are just getitng to know someone new and you are thinking you could really get into this person. When & how do you ask them if they are single? Right away? Do you wait to see if the person seems attracted to you? I try to slip it in conversation. If they say they go camping a lot or something, you could say "Oh, you and your girlfriend must really enjoy that?" And of course, they either agree or correct you by saying they are single. You can almost always throw in something like that during a chat. I sort of tried this. He said he liked taking pictures of his boys. I said, "family is a good thing to take pictures of." He said, "I just take pictures of my boys." Still left me wondering.

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Wed 04/09/08 12:23 PM
maybe he was talking about his "boys"...

NeedaLife Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 203	Wed 04/09/08 12:25 PM
LOL

sleeplessingermany Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 1490	Wed 04/09/08 12:26 PM
...wait for him to ask you...

NeedaLife Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 203	Wed 04/09/08 12:29 PM
...wait for him to ask you... This guy I know from work, where the majority of the men are married. I get asked out all the time by guys I know are married. (I must look easy) Anyway I'm thinking there is more of a chance that he's married than not. Everyone knows I'm not married. There are tons more men than women who work there and everyone knows who the single women are.

sleeplessingermany Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 1490	Wed 04/09/08 12:37 PM
...wait for him to ask you... This guy I know from work, where the majority of the men are married. I get asked out all the time by guys I know are married. (I must look easy) Anyway I'm thinking there is more of a chance that he's married than not. Everyone knows I'm not married. There are tons more men than women who work there and everyone knows who the single women are. ....hmmm. i guess it is time for "plan B" now. if he does not ask you because he already knows you are single, i guess that leaves only one option: go ahead and ask him. good luck!!!

NeedaLife Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 203	Wed 04/09/08 12:43 PM
Thanks all. I guess it's time to take a deep breath and just ask directly and get it over with. Regardless of how red I know my face will get.