Topic: Do any other women have this problem with men?
EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:35 AM
This line: I don't mind getting dirty, in fact I love it. might be attracting the wrong type. Just a tip.

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:38 AM
Yeah I suppose huh?
But that isn't supposed to be taken that way.
grumble
It just means I'm not afraid to get muddy like most girls.

wiley's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:39 AM

Yeah I suppose huh?
But that isn't supposed to be taken that way.
grumble
It just means I'm not afraid to get muddy like most girls.



Guys are probably gonna take that the wrong way. Just being honest. flowerforyou

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:41 AM
haha there i fixed it. laugh

viraloneontheout's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:42 AM
Chelc sweetheart maybe you should date guys a lil older than you Sometime life experiences make them grow up a lil bit im not saying 40 but maybe 26 - 30 granted it might seem gross but there are alot of nicer guys out there that know how to respect a woman and treat them right given the chance

viraloneontheout's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:43 AM
In fact i raised my age limit because most girls where im from dont want that type of guy till they are 30 or even 40

wiley's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:44 AM

In fact i raised my age limit because most girls where im from dont want that type of guy till they are 30 or even 40


I've noticed that too. ohwell

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:44 AM

Yeah I suppose huh?
But that isn't supposed to be taken that way.
grumble
It just means I'm not afraid to get muddy like most girls.



I know exactly what it means, cuz I'm a tomboy kinda girl myself but the word dirty just is one of those "tease" words to guys... lol :wink:

Jtevans's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:48 AM

So I have a rather serious question, and to some it might be stupid.
But I’m serious; I have a problem with this.
People always ask me…
Why are you single? You’re so pretty, blah blah.
I always answer, because I hate dating.
They ask why, I tell them.
It’s because whenever I go out on a date,
Men automatically think they’re going to sleep with me.
Is this a common thing?
Or do I just get the pick of the litter?

And for all you who are going to ask the following…
No I do not dress like a slut.
No I do not make eyes at them like I want them.
No I do not go home with them.
No I do not kiss on the first date.

I do however do the following…
Have nice polite conversation.
Laugh at their jokes, if they’re funny.
Flirt with them, that don’t mean I want to sleep with them.
And am nice to them.

It’s frustrating!
I think I meet a decent guy and come to find out,
I’m a piece of ass.
And when they don’t get it, I get booted.
Dating sucks.
Therefore, why I am single.



so....you wanna...do it?

wiley's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:50 AM


Yeah I suppose huh?
But that isn't supposed to be taken that way.
grumble
It just means I'm not afraid to get muddy like most girls.



I know exactly what it means, cuz I'm a tomboy kinda girl myself but the word dirty just is one of those "tease" words to guys... lol :wink:


I like tomboys. They usually know how to just hang.

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:52 AM

Chelc sweetheart maybe you should date guys a lil older than you Sometime life experiences make them grow up a lil bit im not saying 40 but maybe 26 - 30 granted it might seem gross but there are alot of nicer guys out there that know how to respect a woman and treat them right given the chance



That's the truth!

viraloneontheout's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:54 AM
I do like your profile nice edit and good country references

viraloneontheout's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:57 AM


Chelc sweetheart maybe you should date guys a lil older than you Sometime life experiences make them grow up a lil bit im not saying 40 but maybe 26 - 30 granted it might seem gross but there are alot of nicer guys out there that know how to respect a woman and treat them right given the chance



That's the truth!


It is plain and simple men nowadays that are 20 -25 are still kids a quote from younger days = you become a man when you put up your childish things

Men my age tend to be a lil different along with the older guys too we were born in an age where our parents didnt coddle or protect us we were taught how to be men and gentlemen not all this crap in society

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 04/09/08 02:04 AM



Chelc sweetheart maybe you should date guys a lil older than you Sometime life experiences make them grow up a lil bit im not saying 40 but maybe 26 - 30 granted it might seem gross but there are alot of nicer guys out there that know how to respect a woman and treat them right given the chance



That's the truth!


It is plain and simple men nowadays that are 20 -25 are still kids a quote from younger days = you become a man when you put up your childish things

Men my age tend to be a lil different along with the older guys too we were born in an age where our parents didnt coddle or protect us we were taught how to be men and gentlemen not all this crap in society


Right...I'm 36 and I find a huge difference...

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/09/08 03:41 AM


Nope, I'd know I found a gentleman. Something you obviously know nothing about... ahhh my friends list got lighter... thanks for this post, chel_c!laugh


No problem. laugh
Glad I could be of assistance. flowerforyou


I wish I could retract this post of mine... I really caused a LOT of trouble with this one, apparently.... best I can see, this was the match that lit the fuse of a huge fire that got way out of control tonight.

I shouldn't have made this public statement about deleting a
"friend" and calling him ungentlemanly and for that I apologize. I simply do not agree with his posts as being gentleman-like and I should've kept it at that instead of making it personal.

scoot_42000's photo
Wed 04/09/08 03:57 AM
I hope I didn't say anything that offended you either Ethereal, I also hope I didn't stick my nose in where it wasn't welcome...

TakinCareOfBusiness's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:15 AM

So I have a rather serious question, and to some it might be stupid.
But I’m serious; I have a problem with this.
People always ask me…
Why are you single? You’re so pretty, blah blah.
I always answer, because I hate dating.
They ask why, I tell them.
It’s because whenever I go out on a date,
Men automatically think they’re going to sleep with me.
Is this a common thing?
Or do I just get the pick of the litter?

And for all you who are going to ask the following…
No I do not dress like a slut.
No I do not make eyes at them like I want them.
No I do not go home with them.
No I do not kiss on the first date.

I do however do the following…
Have nice polite conversation.
Laugh at their jokes, if they’re funny.
Flirt with them, that don’t mean I want to sleep with them.
And am nice to them.

It’s frustrating!
I think I meet a decent guy and come to find out,
I’m a piece of ass.
And when they don’t get it, I get booted.
Dating sucks.
Therefore, why I am single.
so why are you single? you're so pretty,and do you want to sleep with me, i dont assume this, I need to knowbigsmile smokin drinker

TakinCareOfBusiness's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:16 AM

haha there i fixed it. laugh
be yourself, don't change things just cause folks tell you too, just a thought, you'll be changing stuff dailylaugh flowerforyou drinker smokin bigsmile

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/09/08 05:58 PM

I hope I didn't say anything that offended you either Ethereal, I also hope I didn't stick my nose in where it wasn't welcome...


You didn't offend me at all, you simply stated your opinion of what you saw happening. Like I said, the whole topic probably could've been avoided if I would've left out that first comment but the past is over and done. No worries.

franshade's photo
Wed 04/09/08 06:00 PM
chel - you are still young and beautiful, I believe men will always "try" however, it is entirely up to you how far they can go.

For those that only expect a sexual favor, make sure to order the most expensive thing on the menu (just kidding)drinker