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i had a issue like that a few yrs ago. as where i would sleep on the couch i think i did that for about a yr... i felt safer that way for along time, the guy i was with didnt cheat but he was abusive and i was only with him for a week, but he wouldnt leave, finally when he hit me the police were called and of course he went to jail but he had the nerve to call me collect that same day Are you serious!? 
YES!! im serious. i wouldnt had said anything like that other wise.. i even put a restraining order on him when he was in jail. and the police was suposeto contact me when he was released but of course they didnt. how i found out he was out, he was paging me, and i called the police and they said oh he just paging hes not hurting anything but yet he had a restraining order not to contact me 
he didnt knock on my door, he just called... but ignored the calls... and i tracked down his ex gf as to find out he accused her on cheating when it was him, as he had a fling with a lady where he got her hook on drugs. and he hit her but she didnt press charges, and then another time he hit her so bad the hospitol pressed charges, he hit her with a tire iron... i got away in time... he seem nice at first and then it got really bad... he doesnt know where i live now and doesnt have my phone number, so im not worried i thought i saw him a few times but i wasent sure...... |
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i had a issue like that a few yrs ago. as where i would sleep on the couch i think i did that for about a yr... i felt safer that way for along time, the guy i was with didnt cheat but he was abusive and i was only with him for a week, but he wouldnt leave, finally when he hit me the police were called and of course he went to jail but he had the nerve to call me collect that same day Are you serious!?
YES!! im serious. i wouldnt had said anything like that other wise.. i even put a restraining order on him when he was in jail. and the police was suposeto contact me when he was released but of course they didnt. how i found out he was out, he was paging me, and i called the police and they said oh he just paging hes not hurting anything but yet he had a restraining order not to contact me
he didnt knock on my door, he just called... but ignored the calls... and i tracked down his ex gf as to find out he accused her on cheating when it was him, as he had a fling with a lady where he got her hook on drugs. and he hit her but she didnt press charges, and then another time he hit her so bad the hospitol pressed charges, he hit her with a tire iron... i got away in time... he seem nice at first and then it got really bad... he doesnt know where i live now and doesnt have my phone number, so im not worried i thought i saw him a few times but i wasent sure...... when he was in jail, i had called the jail to ask a question not realizing that i was talking to my sister neighbor who happens to be a cop, and he made sure that i wouldnt get any more calls so they put a block on the pay phones while he was there... that put me at ease... i met his mom, and omg!! at least i know where he got his temper from his mom was 'b'' and i was told his dad was a sweet heart.. |
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i had a issue like that a few yrs ago. as where i would sleep on the couch i think i did that for about a yr... i felt safer that way for along time, the guy i was with didnt cheat but he was abusive and i was only with him for a week, but he wouldnt leave, finally when he hit me the police were called and of course he went to jail but he had the nerve to call me collect that same day Are you serious!?
YES!! im serious. i wouldnt had said anything like that other wise.. i even put a restraining order on him when he was in jail. and the police was suposeto contact me when he was released but of course they didnt. how i found out he was out, he was paging me, and i called the police and they said oh he just paging hes not hurting anything but yet he had a restraining order not to contact me
he didnt knock on my door, he just called... but ignored the calls... and i tracked down his ex gf as to find out he accused her on cheating when it was him, as he had a fling with a lady where he got her hook on drugs. and he hit her but she didnt press charges, and then another time he hit her so bad the hospitol pressed charges, he hit her with a tire iron... i got away in time... he seem nice at first and then it got really bad... he doesnt know where i live now and doesnt have my phone number, so im not worried i thought i saw him a few times but i wasent sure...... when he was in jail, i had called the jail to ask a question not realizing that i was talking to my sister neighbor who happens to be a cop, and he made sure that i wouldnt get any more calls so they put a block on the pay phones while he was there... that put me at ease... i met his mom, and omg!! at least i know where he got his temper from his mom was 'b'' and i was told his dad was a sweet heart.. guys can be jerks, my house is on high alert for the next month cuz of an ex, he wouldnt leave me alone, he would tell me to move on(WHICH i had done before he said anything) then he would tell me he loved me and wanted to be with me, and i told him i've moved past it, and i'm done with him and to leave me alone, and he wouldnt, so i called the cops and they gave him a warning, next its an arrest....so now if any one calls the cops with my address, every cop with in a 5mile radis will be there |
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 Know the feeling man,.
Mine,,CHEATED on me in it,,,,and our house,,,,so,,,,,,I said F**K it and got rid of it ALL,,,,,,Now im Better,lol You may have to buy ya another BED!!!! Good Luck Man... 
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the last time i had spoken or saw him was over 7yrs ago... but i did find out something a old bf of mine that i still talk to every now and then, told me that the guy that hit me was a distant cousin of his... he found that out from his mom... but jr is nothing like him.. that was good
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Yea I know what you mean Lost my husband at Christmas and it always make getting through the holidays that much harder. Finally I dumped all the Christmas decorations and got new ones. I agree with ditching the bed. Even if you just take out the natress or sheets somewhere and "P" on them or set them on fire it is a great release. Lot safer than a revenge F--k which can get you in a lot of trouble. The big "A" kind of trouble. Any of you having bed buddies keep that in mind and protect yourself.
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Know the feeling man,.
Mine,,CHEATED on me in it,,,,and our house,,,,so,,,,,,I said F**K it and got rid of it ALL,,,,,,Now im Better,lol You may have to buy ya another BED!!!! Good Luck Man...
Thanx bud, I don't know if cheating happened in that bed or not, but im sure somewhere subconsciously I know that when I was out of town for work, someone was sleeping in my bed.
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Know the feeling man,.
Mine,,CHEATED on me in it,,,,and our house,,,,so,,,,,,I said F**K it and got rid of it ALL,,,,,,Now im Better,lol You may have to buy ya another BED!!!! Good Luck Man...
Thanx bud, I don't know if cheating happened in that bed or not, but im sure somewhere subconsciously I know that when I was out of town for work, someone was sleeping in my bed.
can i sleep in ur bed? 
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Absolutely.
...Runs off to make bed 
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Absolutely.
...Runs off to make bed
why waste time making it?? It'll just get messed up again 
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I think I actually have a phobia that involves my bed. I have not slept in that bed since Christmas last year (That was the day my live in gf, left me for another man). It's April now and I need to make the step back into that bed. There have been times that I have tried but only last a few minutes and then go back to the couch or the living room floor. I feel ridiculous, I'm not broken, but it's still hard to do simple everyday things sometimes... 
So tonight I plan on breaking this, I am going to stay up til I cannot see straight, til I am thoroughly exhausted and then I'm going to try again... Is this sad or what? Had over a year of this very nonsense, and I'm sick of it too, bro!
You'll be fine!! |
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mine took the bed so i started fresh but i feel you.my son is always sneaking into mine so not usually alone...
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and?
where did you sleep last night?
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So i stayed up until 4:30 and was thoroughly exhausted and knocked out in the bed. I feel refreshed. Oh how much I missed the comfort of my bed, my back doesn't hurt at all this afternoon and I actually felt like I slept for the first time in a while.
A special "shout out"  to that special person that kept me up late on the phone
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YAY!!!!!! some people are just good for things like that
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You know for along time I slept on a couch when my
boyfriend left. I think it was a matter of feeling something against my back for me. Alot of people feel the way you do. It will pass with time. You will one day look back at this and laugh. Believe me!
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