Just finished reading all this. Txs, gotta say I love your answer.

If ya don t like me for me and what you see move on...

I m not changing for anyone.

"To go through life trying to be someone else, is a total waste of the
person that you are"

Hummmmmmmmmmmm huhhhhhhhhhhhhhh see there ya go Alphine and that famous
word USE lol

But out of all honesty if you can't trust a person to be honest with you
on a one on one situtation and you have to have the proof as a webcam
and having them prove who they are why in the hell are you even talking
to them?

Now if I was in a relantionship with someone I had meet on line and
wanted to get a web cam then so be it but been there and still did not
get a webcam not into cyber sex with the web cam and don't try to tell
me that most I said most guys would not want that if they could get it
lol shsssssssssss


If someone is that insecure with themselves and others the internet is
not the place to be do the dating thing that they have get togethers in
order to meet in person instead then caring it to the IM in between time
hummm problem solved you already know what they look like before you
carry it any farther lol.

VERY GOOD WORDS TO STAND BY KOJACK !

I also agree with Kojak however if they implement the sho is hot or not
I believe we will be flooded with phoney images.

my computer is so d**n old it does not even have a place to hook up a
web cam. even if it did I personally would not want to ge there. I have
enough wed cam problems already, one or two girls will e-mail with a pic
that shows nothing then says go to some other site to watch me do a web
cam show, it will only cost you 3.99 a minute. forget it I just delete
them, I have better uses for my money.

Your mind is only flooded with what you chose for it to be flooded with
sorry but you can look at a pic and tell if it is a glamour shot or
fake if you let your mind run wild then that is your choice. You can't
be so critial on someone your talking to to the point they think your
strange and want to prove every move they make or every thing they say
or think promise ya if you do. You will soon hear click ohhhhhhhhh my
you just lost connection. People do not want to feel as if they have to
prove ever move or thing they say. Like I said take me as I'm or don't
take me at all end of story.

This again??? I went out and bought a web cam, I take stills with it I
have a pic with a just say hi sign if thats not enough then piss off, I
got no time for this crap.

maybe I put this topic in the wrong place. I had no idea it was such a
touchy subject amoung the general population here.

hey Kev. I think you know where and why I stand on this issue.
Maybe good for some but not all.
how are you anyway, chat with ya soon

kevin,,,I totaly agree with Txsgirl on this one, I don't need to prove
myself to no one..there are people on here that have never posted a pic.
and we are very good friends.. on this forums, you will know when
someone is a fake, because what does not come out on the wash, comes out
on the rinse!!lol
so don't worry your head about this darling!!I have very good friends
here and they are my friends, not for their looks, but for their heart.
and that is what makes a person beautifull, to me...we know who the
fakes are, and you know what as long as they behave like a normal person
on this site, don't see a problem, if Vanchau lets them be on why not
us,,anyway if you want to date someone who is a fake, you will know, if
your talking for a while and all is good, ask them to meet and you will
get your answer!!!!because if they are fakes they wont meet you!! now
what can anyone do about that

not a mother ****ing thing!!!!!!!lmao!!!lmao!!!

what do you think kevin???

uh!V?

*rolls eyes**** oh brother!!!

forgot how 2 make a rose.

Probably right Morena on top of that it seems that many of the people
may have either dial up or older computers which could cause a problem.
Not many web cams are supported by Windows for Workgroups or OS2.

KEVIN WHAT IS E=mc2 ? ?

I prefer to keep the webcam for someone I am interested in. Why should
I put up the webcam for someone I just met? I am a very pvt person and
I have a picture up of me. One taken a few years ago... one taken a
week ago. If that does not float your boat then trust is an issue YOU
have.

I am prepared to chat with men and women without their pictures posted.
If they want to meet, then I would ask for a picture so I know who I am
going to meet.

I like the idea of getting to know the mind instead of the looks of
someone.

T

Well, kevin, seem al lot of people here have found a way to deal with
this old age issue. Just join in and have fun, make friends; and if by
some coincidence you find a special someone someday, you'll know how to
deal with it then.

Although,I can see, that if you've become infatuated with this person
and he/she is not the person you thought. But then, some said it:
"he/she will not want to go farther and be uncovered as a fake".

As Sluggo goes searching for his fake photo for when JSH switches over
to the Hot or Not feature....

You know, I bet a lot of people won't even take the time to click into
the profile to look at all the picture (which would make the sign idea
sorta waste of time)...

But I have to agree with Kevin on this (How wrong is that)..lol