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i really wanna know how i'm benefiting.....
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i really wanna know how i'm benefiting..... cuz you know your doin right by your son.. believe it or not your showin him how to be a real man! |
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Edited by
azrae1l
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Wed 04/02/08 12:55 PM
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i don't see how me teaching him right from wrong benefits me at all.
frankly i want her gone. i could take full custody with no problems and i really want to. i also know i'm not doing right by him, eventually she'll walk out on him again, he'll learn what kind of person she is and he'll end up not liking her as well. |
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ok, i'll answer this one honestly since you seem to think everybody is out for themselves in sort of way.... i deal with my ex so my son can still have his mother at least what little mother he has. i get nothing from her in any way shape or form. i collect no child support, we don't speak, we're not friendly to each other, i have absolutely no use for her in any way shape or form. we fight constantly, we have nothing nice to say to each other, i have to deal with seeing the woman who cheated on me and walked out on her family for a weekend peice of ass. she see's him strictly because he has a right to know his mother. what do i gain from this situation? i do it only for him... 
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I've done things for people just because I care for them.
Not because of the feeling I get from helping them. Maybe more of the feeling I would have if I didn't help them. Love is a selfless act, I think. And it makes you do all kinds of nice things. Mostly stupid things, but nice, too. 
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See, there are some good ones left ladies!
I know Jilly.. isn't he a dreamboat? |
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I guess it depends on how judgemental you are ( you in the general sense not "you" specifically)
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See, there are some good ones left ladies!
I know Jilly.. isn't he a dreamboat? more like a tugboat...... |
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Is there REALLY such a thing as a selfless act? I mean think about this... even the most innocent, thoughtful, caring, giving gestures are done for some sort of personal gain.. even if it is just that warm fuzzy feeling.. self gratification. 
Your thinking to much 
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i really wanna know how i'm benefiting..... cuz you know your doin right by your son.. believe it or not your showin him how to be a real man! |
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Edited by
makingchangesagain
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Wed 04/02/08 01:06 PM
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I believe a selfless act is something you do when there are no witnesses.For example if you give money to a person starving on the street the only ones who know is you,that person,and god..
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i suppose i'm not getting an answer....
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I believe a selfless act is something you do when there are no witnesses.For example if you give money to a person starving on the street the only ones who know is you,that person,and god.. .
I agree!  
Welcome to the posts and site makingchangesagain
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i really wanna know how i'm benefiting..... cuz you know your doin right by your son.. believe it or not your showin him how to be a real man! Or MAYBE I stress maybe you are so angry you are trying to make her look even worse by being the "bigger" person. THen it wouldn't seem so selfless. The good thing is it ends up that way because nothing hurts a child like someone hateing the parent so much that they down them which indirectly is downing half of what a child sees themself as. A child will find some glimmer of something good in both parents if given a chance. If nothing more that they brought them into the world. In your case that may be your Ex's saving grace. |
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i hate it when people start a debate like this and walk away with out even providing any sort of proof for their arguments.
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i suppose i'm not getting an answer.... |
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Is there REALLY such a thing as a selfless act? I mean think about this... even the most innocent, thoughtful, caring, giving gestures are done for some sort of personal gain.. even if it is just that warm fuzzy feeling.. self gratification.
I believe your cynicism has reached the point of being derangement. Go seek help. |
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Edited by
azrae1l
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Wed 04/02/08 01:27 PM
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i really wanna know how i'm benefiting..... cuz you know your doin right by your son.. believe it or not your showin him how to be a real man! Or MAYBE I stress maybe you are so angry you are trying to make her look even worse by being the "bigger" person. THen it wouldn't seem so selfless. The good thing is it ends up that way because nothing hurts a child like someone hateing the parent so much that they down them which indirectly is downing half of what a child sees themself as. A child will find some glimmer of something good in both parents if given a chance. If nothing more that they brought them into the world. In your case that may be your Ex's saving grace. ok so your saying by me having nothing to do with her, and i mean nothing. i don't speak about her at all to anyone. our whole relationship now is me dropping him off and asking what time i pick him up. i don't insult her, i don't rag on her. yeah i know eventually she'll screw it up like she does with every other relationship she has with anybody. but no i make it a point not to say anything about her, i want him to learn what she's like on her own. so once again, how do i benefit here? emotionally?..... nope monetarily?...... nope physically?...... nope sorry i just don't see it.... |
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i don't see how me teaching him right from wrong benefits me at all. I don't see how it doesnt?? |
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i remember one time where i needed to use the elevator and as soon as i got there there was an old lady who needed to use it too,i looked at her and said,"oh.....you can use it after
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