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Topic: should a guy
hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Mon 03/31/08 05:42 PM
I will always buy if I get some dessert later.

Jillybean31 Joined Thu 03/20/08 Posts: 815	Mon 03/31/08 05:42 PM
I dated a guy who refused to let me treat...ever, and it became a little uncomfortable to suggest places to go out. I didn't want to go with him to try that new restaurant, because it's like asking him to spend a lot of money on me to suggest it. I treated a friend instead. Uncomfortable situation solved!

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Mon 03/31/08 05:42 PM
I guess if you can't get one for free... Sometimes my sense of humor is wasted on here.. i just came in and was about to give u a big

jenleah32 Joined Sat 09/22/07 Posts: 4577	Mon 03/31/08 05:43 PM
I'll help pay for gas...

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Mon 03/31/08 05:45 PM
If she is worth it

68chevy Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 6926	Mon 03/31/08 05:46 PM
I guess if you can't get one for free... Sometimes my sense of humor is wasted on here.. i just came in and was about to give u a big Yessssssss

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 03/31/08 05:46 PM
Why does a date have to cost at all? Cost you what? AN hour of your time, some practical thought, a stretch of the imagination? I would pay for that!

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Mon 03/31/08 05:47 PM Edited by darkowl1 on Mon 03/31/08 05:48 PM
i've never had the option of not paying...ever, i thought it was always that, i've never heard of otherwise until deadbeat dads were prevelant

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Mon 03/31/08 05:48 PM
Why does a date have to cost at all? Cost you what? AN hour of your time, some practical thought, a stretch of the imagination? I would pay for that! So Smart, So beautiful and so far away Story of my life......

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Mon 03/31/08 05:49 PM
I agree with Jenna. The biggest cost to me is my time. If I feel it's worth it, I'll pay.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 03/31/08 05:50 PM
Why does a date have to cost at all? Cost you what? AN hour of your time, some practical thought, a stretch of the imagination? I would pay for that! So Smart, So beautiful and so far away Story of my life...... Obviously not too far away for some........ heya Ron.

Donnafisher Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 8596	Mon 03/31/08 05:50 PM
the person did the asking pays for the date

Donnafisher Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 8596	Mon 03/31/08 05:51 PM Edited by Donnafisher on Mon 03/31/08 05:52 PM
but if I'm paying he better put out

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Mon 03/31/08 06:00 PM
If a guy asks me out on a date I expect him to pay. I am never offended if it is basiclly a free date; like hanging out at the park, watching some free community event, church, or window shopping at the mall and in a brand new relationship I actually prefer it. After a few dates I would expect to reciprocate the compliment, which I believe a date is, by asking the gentleman to something, maybe even pricey, that I would treat for. If we are dateing routinely it would be highly likely I would even chip in when he was paying such as a dessert for a meal or drinks at a movie. A date is not suppose to break a guy. Would it be equal to what he can contribute? Probably not. I tend not to make the finacial resources that the men I date do because my career was predominently public service and raiseing a family; neither high paying. People of my generation generally value that however.

pjdh1952 Joined Sat 02/09/08 Posts: 1161	Mon 03/31/08 06:28 PM
Why should the guy always have to pay? If things are to be on a 50/50 basis, whats the problem if a woman has to pay. To me it shows some class and respect.