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Does it really make the heart grow fonder?
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I think so!
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Does it really make the heart grow fonder?
To a point yes because you start thinking of all the GOOD things between you two... and when they get back you start remembering the little things you dont like about them. |
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For some.
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Not for me.... it makes me wonder why I am in that relationship.
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Hi kitten
, I'm not sure. I'm still not convinced about the "better to have loved & lost" thing either...interesting question...I'll be checking back on this post...
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Yes, cuz when my guy goes back home, I can't wait til he comes back to me!
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Hi kitten , I'm not sure. I'm still not convinced about the "better to have loved & lost" thing either...interesting question...I'll be checking back on this post...
Howdy Allen!
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Hi kitten , I'm not sure. I'm still not convinced about the "better to have loved & lost" thing either...interesting question...I'll be checking back on this post...
Howdy Allen!
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I believe so, cause I miss the hell out of my sweetie even more each time we see each other and I have to leave.
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No. I just think it doesn't breed contempt, satiation, or complacency; as being together all the time can do.
The less time you spend together, person to person... the less likely you are to take those times for granted or to get enough... not to mention those who get "too much" and might feel smothered or bored. I'd say a fair amount of absence keeps the heart fonder longer... not making it grow fonder to begin with. After all... don't we all want what we cannot have?
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No. I just think it doesn't breed contempt, satiation, or complacency; as being together all the time can do. The less time you spend together, person to person... the less likely you are to take those times for granted or to get enough... not to mention those who get "too much" and might feel smothered or bored. I'd say a fair amount of absence keeps the heart fonder longer... not making it grow fonder to begin with. After all... don't we all want what we cannot have?
I was waiting for your wise words. Your totally right!!
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Edited by
AllenAqua
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Mon 03/31/08 11:04 AM
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No. I just think it doesn't breed contempt, satiation, or complacency; as being together all the time can do. The less time you spend together, person to person... the less likely you are to take those times for granted or to get enough... not to mention those who get "too much" and might feel smothered or bored. I'd say a fair amount of absence keeps the heart fonder longer... not making it grow fonder to begin with. After all... don't we all want what we cannot have?
Lilith is soooo wise.
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Not if you wanted him to leave!
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Awww shucks guys....
If you all did not ask these questions I'd never think of the responses I do. You teach me about things I had no idea about before, really. I struggle in my LDR... I really do. My SO just does such a great job of how he expresses his feelings and I get so frustrated. But I take comfort in knowing my frustation comes from love and anticipation. I got to take comfort in that, because as he said, I am lucky I have a person to miss and to love me in return. Being apart from the person we love shows us how much we appreciate that person. It keeps them in our hearts because we carry theirs within ours.
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Edited by
AllenAqua
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Mon 03/31/08 11:12 AM
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Awww shucks guys....
If you all did not ask these questions I'd never think of the responses I do. You teach me about things I had no idea about before, really. I struggle in my LDR... I really do. My SO just does such a great job of how he expresses his feelings and I get so frustrated. But I take comfort in knowing my frustation comes from love and anticipation. I got to take comfort in that, because as he said, I am lucky I have a person to miss and to love me in return. Being apart from the person we love shows us how much we appreciate that person. It keeps them in our hearts because we carry theirs within ours.
Hey Lilith...what about the "better to have loved & lost" thing ? any thoughts on that hon ? 
sorry kitten, don't wanna hijack your post. |
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it depends on how long of an absense
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I think that only works if the other person has ever been present. In that case i would say absolutely.
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Allen if you start a thread I'll respond to it..
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Allen if you start a thread I'll respond to it..
ok...done deal then... 
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