I was writing to her, and haven't had a response to my last e-mail, and
am worried about her too. Am worried that maybe her husband found out
about the website, but she must still be active because my last e-mail
shows unread, didn't disappear, if she had closed her account it would
have disappeared wouldn't it??

I have been worrying about her, but don't know what to do about it.
Offered her any help I can give her, to talk to her at any time. She
only writes during the day, before he comes home from work, etc., so
hope someone hears something soon.

She has deleted..

Her account has been deleted. This topic is a month old...lol.

Darn, I thought since my e-mail still showed unread that she was still
active. I have sent people e-mails before and they have deleted and the
e-mails disappeared. Hope she is okay and that he didn't find out about
her writing us. It is up to her now.

foxy,
O my gosh!I went thru the same thing for years with my1st husband!I
too,had % kids,but i didnt do the right thing and ended up stabbing him
to protect myself&kids,&i went to jail &lost my kids.....Have him
arrested NOW<and go to al-anon,to get some support....they will help you
with your fears and teach you how to live and be strong for yourself and
kids!Also,get a restraining order right away...You dont deserve to be
treted like that!!!!!!!!DO IT before he does kill you,or you have to
defend yourself or kids and you end up in trouble,instead of
him.....believe me...i know from experience.Also,you can do great with
your children,on your own and when the time is right,you will find a
good relationship...al-anon will give you the tools...its a great
program.

Wow, Angeleyes, so sorry to hear that. I lived in a relationship like
that for 10 years, but did manage to get out before he killed me and my
daughter, counselors said that is where we were heading. That is what I
told her, to get out before he killed her, it is all over the news now,
every day. So sorry you went through that, but really glad you are
getting help. I only had one daughter, she was 5 when I divorced him,
and it really messed her head up. He actually drank himself to death at
the ripe old age of 45.

If you ever want to talk, write me, I am on here every night and would
love to talk to you.

WOW! There are more of us out there than I realized. I too was abused,
but it was more of the verbal/emotional/controlling abuse. He was
obsessive/compulsive and a real control freak. Before we divorced
(after 23 yrs of marriage) I was seriously considering taking my son and
going to a shelter; I was very frightened by him. Well, just after our
divorce, he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and passed away a year
later. I do believe that God has plans for his abusers.

God bless you all