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Fri 03/13/09 02:51 PM
Problem is the serious of this site it is a free dating site so just about anybody can sign up and 3/4 of the people on dating sites you pay for aren't really serious for the most part they just did it out of boredom, to spite another whom they are in a bad relationship with, did it while drunk and off a friends advice, or a pervert looking for some type of one time sexual incounter. As you search you will find that this site has a lot of people around you but only like 2% of them are active. All the people that are active in the forums (the people that are most active on this site) usually 90% of the time are not within 50 miles of where your at so with that said good luck.

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Mon 03/09/09 07:05 PM
there is a big difference though we often want to forget the fact we know very little so we make up for it with a false belief of knowing everything

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Mon 03/09/09 07:01 PM
no sushi is my favorite but because of how the government has subsidised the food industry fast food is my favorite food i can afford.

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Mon 03/09/09 04:51 PM

But after tonight, I KNOW that he isn't with his ex, they were talking about her, cuz I guess someone was after her, one of his friends, and he was like, "She's my baby's momma, She's a complete *****, but dude, if he wanted her, why go through me? Call her!"
Sooo, I'm 95% sure they aren't together. LOL! But that also means that he just wasn't that into me, and lied to me. Which is ok, I can still win him over.


when you come back on here telling us about how this all ended badly we aren't going to say anything just, but there will be enough of us give you that I told you so look that you will be able to feel it

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Mon 03/09/09 04:35 PM
As I said before it is a given that there are going to be the extreme views on both side that are going to say no matter what the other side is wrong. And personally if some one past the same thing over and over again like they do on these forums it is not going to make it true. Saying I am some what inferior in some way because I don't believe what you do is not going to change my mind. Give me factual evidence that I can see, smell, taste, touch then it will have an effect on me. I believe that most people in the middle who are undecided on this issue would also do the same.

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Mon 03/09/09 04:23 PM


Personally I don't believe in soulmates just because logically if there was that one person out there for you that is one in like a billions and billions of people, if you add the philosophical debates of what a soul is I think of it a a form of energy and energy is everywhere throughout the universe, thus your soul mate could even be elsewhere in the universe. So this goes against the Idea of everybody has "that one" person they are going to be with. I believe it is just a matter of us maturing our view on what a relationship involves and being able to settle for less than what they believe is there perfect match. This subject also involves the us to discuss more like what a soul is and fate.


Sounds like you should be dating on an energy scale of around 1.22 × 1028 eV, either that or a particle acceleration facility smile2


maybe, but this is a hard question to answer as you first have to establish what is a soul some people might have a view of the soul being something that can't be mated or match with something else, I also thing the idea of a soulmate leads to the idea that these people are going to be lead to meet each other by forces unknown to them, and not all people are going to believe in "fate" even if they do believe soulmates are possible.

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Mon 03/09/09 01:26 PM
well this is involves a debate into what love is, but I believe that when were younger and not as experienced with relationships the main thing that sparks a humans interest into believing there could be something more serious is physical sexual attraction. As we learn from our unsuccessful relationships and grow more wiser emotional, and mental factors play a bigger role in developing what we individually believe love is.

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Mon 03/09/09 01:18 PM
Personally I don't believe in soulmates just because logically if there was that one person out there for you that is one in like a billions and billions of people, if you add the philosophical debates of what a soul is I think of it a a form of energy and energy is everywhere throughout the universe, thus your soul mate could even be elsewhere in the universe. So this goes against the Idea of everybody has "that one" person they are going to be with. I believe it is just a matter of us maturing our view on what a relationship involves and being able to settle for less than what they believe is there perfect match. This subject also involves the us to discuss more like what a soul is and fate.

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Mon 03/09/09 01:08 PM
Tasted but never drank alcohol, or smoked cigarettes, or pot, or heroine, or crack, ect..., Though I did have brain cancer at the age of 5 probably got more drugs pumped into me than I know of.

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Mon 03/09/09 01:03 PM
I believe that it is the dislike in the harsh immature style of that one liner that is the thing that initially makes you angry, and thus start to nick pick at it to show your anger towards it.

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Mon 03/09/09 09:20 AM

smitten If you could have any significant other next to you right now who would it be and why?smitten


when I find her, she would probably she would most likely be it

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Mon 03/09/09 09:13 AM
yeah I don't think the movie's story was done well in that movie because they didn't do a very good job at leading you to the climaxes "when you learn who the real bad guy is" "when John decides to leave to save the world" and "when the girl was comedians daughter" the only story that was done well was roarshock's"

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Sun 03/08/09 09:55 PM

Hi I'm Rachel, new to the area, and this was the first result on my google haha
So, I'm 21 years old and loving life. Don't be intimidated guys, I don't bite- often :)


welcome :smile: have fun and good luck :wink:

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Sun 03/08/09 12:24 PM
If you ever seen the documentary on the science of sexual attraction or read about it, like 80% of getting a relationship started is about how the other sex initially percieves you physically for both sexes look at the face to make sure it has symmetry the length between the the eyes is equal to the length of the eyes themselves, when you add the width of you mouth and the with of the nose right between the eyes you the mouth should be 2/3rds of the two widths added together and the nose 1/3rd, which also is the way a woman's hips should measure to there waist. A tall man with a deep voice is more attractive then men who are shorter or who have higher tone voices, and women are more attractive short and with higher tone voices. The More of these qualites one has the more attractive they have because we subcontiously dectuct that they have good genes thus have better genes to pass on to offspring which ultimatly is one of the major goals of any Major relationships which is what most of us are looking for. So the majority of people man or woman will first deduct if they want to base someone on looks then personality humor intelligence job ect..,

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Sat 03/07/09 09:28 AM
The Penis mightier than the sword (pen is)

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Sat 03/07/09 07:41 AM
Because, the partners get wrapped up in a relationship that has a lot of physical passion and there is too much too fast with a lack of mental and emotional understanding that by the time things settle down one of the two who are engaged in the relationship realizes they this is not what they want or didn't understand the responsibility it takes to have a relationship in the first place, and the relationship falls apart.

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Sat 03/07/09 05:57 AM
That Humans didn't always have it we used to just reproduce and be done with it. Not until later did it occur to people especially the wealthy and educated if they were told that they were destined by god or whatever to be together they were more likely to stay together and the idea of "the perfect on for you". Later it was adapted so that your match didn't just have to be of you class, creed, race, or even the opposite sex. So I have come to believe that Love is pretty much a Idea we has humans have created to keep our relationships between two people together for life. I also found out that we often mistake the harmones that rush through us when we feel Sexually attracted to someone as love I believe that attraction gets things started but love is much more mentally and emotionally involved than people like to believe as we get wrapped up in the physical aspect of it because that is the part that we have to work the least to get pleasure out of.

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Sat 03/07/09 05:40 AM
The Animaniacs

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Sat 03/07/09 05:38 AM
Edited by Theshortelktonman on Sat 03/07/09 05:38 AM

From what I have read on this specific Forum here is what I can get. Just like Far Leftist and Far Right in politics there groups of people that are set in there beliefs and are not going to in anyway what-so-ever going to change, and are ignorant to the view of the other side because quite frankly they don't care what the other side thinks because in their mind the know they are right and no one can tell them different. This bigotry causes hatred led slurs to be flow from one side two the next. I believe the side that comes out on top is the one that is going to be able to show those that are undecided in the middle that there side can hold a civil and responsible debate and prove there point with facts and reasoning that makes sense. Much like the last election turned out to be an almost landslide victory for Obama because he decided not to have his campaign ran not on hatred of the other guys but peace with in those who came to his side, I believe the people will choose what they want to believe in.


as I posted in another blog about this subject.

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Fri 03/06/09 09:10 PM
sex
slap
snatch
storm
stamp
stump
sting
sty
style
stack
soapy
soap
shallow
sweet
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spoon
smoke
steroids
stiff
sardines
sushi
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sport
sort
spot
sky
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