Just like most sites it takes a bit of searching and try to see by the follow up if someone is just browsing or interested to meet. My impression is if a man keeps emailing he may be shy and leary to meet but just browsing also and if you get a phone number or private email contact info to reach them soon they may actually try to meet. Hope that helps and best wishes with your search.

@ onebdgorilla, best input I see no doubt spoken from experience. I agree one of the most important things is to have that distraction or you will dwell on the break up. There are groups and events ,classes to join as you relay. I looked up online social groups and found a site to pick and choose ones from, free to join. Some charge a membership fee that's low annually but most just are glad you joined them for new members. When you find someone new you can bring them as a guest when you have your group of new friends to share events with that you enjoy. Best wishes to you and the person posting this as we've all been there/done that and when it's a serious or long term relationship it's the hardest to get past. But it's not impossible if we accept what we can't change. Take it all a day at a time and keep busy now.