Me too !!! I don't understand ... this is a "mingle" site ... people are supposed to be open minded ... since I joined ... I found alot of people don't reply or read their email ... I never send any offendsive emails ... I thought even if people are not interested, at least say "no thanks" ... my believes is to keep an open mind, be polite and make new friends ... even I don't have a photo, doesn't mean I can't "mingle" and make new friends right? but since I joinned this site, I hardly make any new friend (just discover the community to voice my opinion)... Make new friends, meet singles and "mingle"? I don't think it is as easy as some people may think...