Community > Posts By > frendzy786
My son does not know his biological dad,not because i didn let them see each other he just never made effort to visit or provide or phone or even write a letter,however i dont have regrets even though it hurt me bad and because my son was only 9 months when i left he does not know his dad so he often use to ask me about him,i can honestly say i have never said anything bad about him as i know when his older he will want to reach out to his biological dad and i dont want his feelings towards that guy to be determined by the little life i had with the guy.when they meet my son will get to know him for who he is......... Parents scare their kids by ill speaking about one another and i was mot going to be one of them,because as a single mom you try even harder to protect your child\ren
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�s a muslim i to disagree ,im not saying that it cannot work.but for a muslim guy it is accepted to marry a non muslim female,but not vicer versa,but thats my belief,however life has soo many obsticles or challenges so i feel that if spouses or partners respect each other. And their beliefs it can work,there will come times when their beliefs clash but its not the clash itself that can break them its how they deal with it in order to move forward,and that goes for any marraige or relaitionship because nothing is ever perfect
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should I feel guilty?
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Your son is entering adulthood and he has his things that he want to do i think if you can manage your time you can do all of the above,work,parent and have fun!just make sure if you looking to find someone to be open about it with your son because even though he is older now he is use to things being the way it is,and you dont want living your life to break the bond between you and your son.and just always be there for him always
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Topic:
should I feel guilty?
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Your son is entering adulthood and he has his things that he want to do i think if you can manage your time you can do all of the above,work,parent and have fun!just make sure if you looking to find someone to be open about it with your son because even though he is older now he is use to things being the way it is,and you dont want living your life to break the bond between you and your son.and just always be there for him always
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AGE MATTER
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It only matters if it matters to you.however love does not ask how old are you before it happens
Just make sure you are old enough to be dating |
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Dating A Single Mom?
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I think yes some guys are afraid of dating single moms but the conversation should not be what you think about, when you on the date and two people click the conversation will run its course,i do not think that the kids should be exposed to every guy a single mom dates as it can be confusing to the child.
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Its actually hard too say out loud what you think when you look at yourself....... Mostly i think how dumb can you be to believe in reall love! I mean come on its like what the hell !and yet i still believe in following the heart lol...... Well thats on my 'change ' list
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what u looking for here?
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Getting to know like minded people and building new friendships
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Hmmm i think when i make the people i love happy makes me feel happiest,knowing i can put a smile on that faces and joy i geus im just sentimental like that but thats me hey
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In my opinion ,single moms who has had bad relaitionships tend to follow in that pattern of attraction,however there are some amaizong men out there who dont scare of easilly but the connection has to be there,and i agree when most guys see a single mom they think "easy target"but that dont mean you have too fall for it!i think it takes a real man to be willing to take on loving another mans child as his own,for woman it is easier to love a child even when the child is not yours
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