my mom once gave me a good advice on this subject, if you cheat never let the other one know,so no one gets hurt emotionally,what a person does not know can't hurt em right.. and ur relationship stays intact,meanwhile u do what u gotta do,just do it as discreet as possible another good advice..is never tell ur partner the truth,like even if ur girl catches u with someone in bed if u tell her ain't nothing happened,then in her mind nothing did happen,as long as id don't come out from ur mouth nothing did happen..u feel me ? Thing is over time being with the same person can infact get boring,so instead of ending the relationship u strenghthen it by having a girl on the side..My pop is away on business trips a lot..only thing my mom can do is trust him, she knows how ladies fall for my pop.. but like she said as long as she doesn't know about it, it's all good... a bit of topic I know just thought I share a bit of my wizdom with u all :)

PS both men and women are equally human,both have needs.. doesn't make any of the party a whore.. not everyone can be committed to just one person,everyone is different..in their perception of things

So why should I care about Nigerian children??