I live in Lucerne, Northern California, 95458. I am not here to chat endlessly with those who live far away, not here for long-distance love or online-only chats. I don't want a pen pal; I want someone who will take a moment to read my profile and message me only if that person might be someone I want to meet. Lake County or within 50 miles of Lucerne 95458, that is where I live. How about you?

Look at it this way: This website is not about helping bring people together, it is about getting people to buy a premium membership and those "coins". The profiles are written by professionals who are not the people described in the profiles. The whole thing is about making $$$, and that is why nobody talks, no one replies to the chat messages, and so on. I joined the site because it was described as being 100% free with no hidden fees and that was a lie.

I am over 50. I live in Lucerne. 95458. I am not here to chat endlessly with those who live far away, not here for long-distance love or online-only chats. I don't want a pen pal; I want someone who will take a moment to read my profile and message me only if that person might be someone I want to meet. Lake County or within 50 miles of Lucerne 95458 is where I live. How about you?

The one thing that love needs in order to develop and grow is time. I thank that most people do not realize that fact, far too many try to force love, they fall in love quickly and then fail to do what it takes to make their love strong. It's like my good friend Warren Zevon used to sing, "They say love conquers all, you can't start it like a car, you can't stop it with a gun."

Sometimes, it seems that sex, or lovemaking can lead to a loving LTR. You care about your partner's satisfaction and pleasure so much that you start to love that person and soon those feelings of love grow so strong that you feel that person's happiness is more important than the sexual experiences you both share. So, love grows strong but only because sexual pleasures have bonded you together. It's time shared that bonds you together. Love needs time. That is why I seek a partner for sex first, with the understanding that there is a goal we both share- monogamy and loyalty in a committed LTR.