Very often asian girls, mainly from china, south china, put on their husband all their frustrations. It’s a culture matter, not belonging to personality. You’ve been raised up with many expectations from your man, if he makes money enough to buy gift for you and give money to you to spend by yourself everything is fine, even if he doesn’t love you and has lovers and mistress around. The expectations pack from that culture is huge, almost impossible to fulfill, so girls think they have all the rights to complain. I suggest you to talk with someone who already divorced for your same reasons, and you will see what kind of disaster they then made in their lives. Then one day you will also tell your son the true, that you divorced because his father wasn’t buying you gifts..... are you sure you are an adult conscious person?