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Sun 12/27/09 06:58 AM
slaphead slaphead slaphead slaphead slaphead Is this thread over yet can I open my eyes and guess it was a dream?
whoa

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Sun 12/27/09 06:46 AM
I don't think anyones truly evil,maybe just selfish for their own means, that's not agreeable for others.

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Sun 12/27/09 06:37 AM

Why i cant find any one the way i want.


Best answer I have is...Why is someone not finding you? When you have that answer, you will know why you can't find someone.

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Sun 12/27/09 04:25 AM
I was 27 when I got married and was dating him for 3 yrs..married 23yrs.

Met a man, and in 6 months we talked abut marriage.But thats all it was, add another 18 months on the relationship to 2 years.So glad it didn't happen...was a person that was all talk...why all talk guess...he had all the action.(also he had no job,major debts,didn't know which way he was going) Did I love the man for just him yes...but common sence took hold....

So what is the right time to get married?

When you both are on same page, your ducks are totally in order.Meaning you can handle a marriage with honesty, love,totally commitment,and you have talked about all your dreams what you want in a marriage and both have same goals for a marriage,Totally being responsible for each other.Have your plans, and goals started together.Trust me it is work and worth every min.

Also wanted to add: when you have 2 responsible people meaning you can totally take care of yourself financially.You now can have a responsible couple working together.Money can keep a relationship or distroy it.

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Sun 12/27/09 03:50 AM
Ahhh nope me either.But good luck in your search

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Sat 12/26/09 11:44 PM
hmmm going to stomp my feet, hopefully trip someone.

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Sat 12/26/09 11:37 PM
I put 26 yrs in my marriage, I know what I did wrong..I stayed in it.
Got out when it finally dawned on me ... heck i'm doing this aloneslaphead

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Sat 12/26/09 11:29 PM
Hello and Welcome

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Sat 12/26/09 11:26 PM
Welcome
ok directions.... hmmm full circle..opps your still here... okie dokie....Join the forums... you really didn't want to go out anyways. you made a thread instead...

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Sat 12/26/09 11:22 PM
Hi Welcome:smile:

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Sat 12/26/09 11:20 PM
Hello and Welcome

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Sat 12/26/09 11:16 PM
For those of you that have shared your stories of your great grandparents or grandparents, and if the are still alive today.Please spend a lot of time with them, ask questions you always wonder about in their life.Ask what they see the future as for you.Maybe share a story of something your going threw and ask advice.
You have no idea how you will make them feel loved and needed yet.

I was very blessed to be raised by a grandparent,and a great grand and learned their hardships.As well as what it took to get them threw a great depression... and they live to tell their story.

This truly makes you think....what we today are doing with our lives to servive.

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Sat 12/26/09 10:58 PM



I have heard once that most cat-owners are in tune with their cats. I have also heard that cat vocalisations and body language are intended solely for our benefit. I never thought I'd be able to speak "Catese" but I seem to be a natural at it.laugh




I admit I was a bit frustrated by "Catese" - much better at "Dog speak" but then I hadn't had a cat as a house mate since a teen (in 50's now) Only got Bella because I wanted a companion and was not allowed a dog where I was living - had forgotten how great they are. Again, I miss her.


Well, not to fear, dogs communicate with us too, in different ways but they do. In fact, dogs are easier to figure out than cats. Gets me thinking, that cats are smarter than dogs, and maybe even humans. Sometimes I wish I was a cat.laugh


Well I have a blind dog, some times walks in to walls not often, to let me know there is a wall there....also when it has to go out, looks at me with legs crossed and huge smile.... and he saying hey you can see..so do something ok ...let me out!

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Sat 12/26/09 10:49 PM



looking back on 2009....what would you have done differently or not do in 2010?


2010 i'm going to look at my goals more careful,and regroup.Also 2009 was a disaster.


Yes, 2009 never happened.


uhh no kidding... hey scotty beam me out....few more days to go, but check me out early..please

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Sat 12/26/09 10:43 PM
ahh Christmas.. someone here sent me flowers, they knew I wasn't doing christmas this year with family, so I didn't put up a tree.Was very sweet.

I gave gifts of cooked food, to many people.I think this was something that I needed to do, so many have less then me, with lost jobs and families to feed.

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Sat 12/26/09 10:32 PM

looking back on 2009....what would you have done differently or not do in 2010?


2010 i'm going to look at my goals more careful,and regroup.Also 2009 was a disaster.

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Sat 12/26/09 10:23 PM

If you could ask a potential SO a question and they HAD to be honest....what would it be?


Are you honest?Or just saying what you need to, to get what you want?

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Sat 12/26/09 07:12 PM
Awww that sort of sucks...but hey welcome back!!!

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Sat 12/26/09 02:26 PM
Ahh go have some fun , and dance..but..please keep your card handy I might like 1 dance also.... if not come back and tell us about it...blushing

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Sat 12/26/09 02:17 PM
Hello and welcome..Good luck with your visit

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