How do you keep a secret?
Hide it in plain sight.
Then make fools out of those who say they can see it.
No need for a "cover-up" when you can condition perception.

American sexual "hang ups" are another problem. No wonder the rest of the world is laughing at us. Well, that, along with our president and PETA.
For those "pushy" bullies who are not honest about what they want, a quick knee to the groin will cool them off. It should be the first thing taught in Phy Ed class.

Women in the U.S. are colder and more jaded as a rule. It's just the material culture.
In the Philippines, they are warmer and have traditional values. Plus it's 10-1 women to men on islands. American women are great, but spoiled.
If you want responses, this is not the place. Go to any site in the Philippines and you will be hammered with responses, daily. It will become a fulltime job just keeping up.
Get a ticket for less than $600 rt right now. That is a honest and realistic answer. My sisters and women friends agree.