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Mon 03/09/26 11:15 AM
long read but interesting perspective..

I concur with much you have written, dating apps seem to encourage a lot of what you have described.. plus the online world emboldens many beyond the point of acceptable behaviour

I've found that some men I've conversed with online, IMO, have been demeaning and demanding as well as seemingly taking pleasure in attacking women, then try to make it look as if the woman is at fault for responding to the mans opinions with their own.. which seems to fall into your #4 category.. am I to assume then that the lashing out is due to the results that stem from those failures?

in many ways that would make perfect sense.. this kind of behaviour seems to be an insight into their deeper nature, and not only a total turn off, but one of the main reasons for many women choosing to remin single

There are definitely mechanisms on there app's that are designed in such a way that rewards greed and been over stimulated in anything will change behavior.
Non of the encouraged behaviors are healthy for anyone. Here guys don't have to take NO as an answer because they just move on to the next product. This creates new neutral path ways in the brain that you make decisions with. That gets repeated and guys have no issue asking for nudes of woman and if they here NO thats the end of the "date". This one of many behavioral issues form and it can spill over from the relative safety of been on the phone to real life. Not all but read the profiles of the woman and you will soon see that there is a lack of respect for woman in these app and tie that with the way some religions view woman as 2nd to men and some cultures this becomes a greater societal problem. Lastly you said that some men will lay the blame on the woman. so now we have cowards with no respect.
There is a lot to discuss and Ill be done with my analysis on the habits and behavior opportunities of the female side of this mess.