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Look, Mrs. Morals, don't tell me it comes with age. You mean to tell me that a higher standard of living doesn't help decide if people stay or go? I am still friend's with my former father-in-law who is over 60 and he complains about women wanting only one thing. MONEY. No, not straight up cabbage, but they always ask him about retirement, investments, things like that. And this is normally on the first date. Maybe I come accross as brash, but more people need a bite from a reality sandwich. Look, optimism isn't bad when taken in the right dose. Hope for the best, but plan on the worst so you aren't disappointed. The cold hard fact is that fr any given individual 99.9% of the world does not care about them.
Also, I think a lot of you are blind to the sarcasm too. Chill out, this is an internet forum, a place to echange ideas. It's not a do or die situation. |
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Edited by
Wacodude
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Sat 01/24/09 04:13 PM
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I apologize sincerely. I misread your post. I am a douche.
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Edited by
Wacodude
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Sat 01/24/09 04:14 PM
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Again sorry.
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Ok, BREATHE! Now count to 10...I'll count with ya'...1...2...3...there ya' go...don't forget to breathe...lol. Honestly, I believe it is in our own choices. So, the women you are choosing may all have that same character flaw (generalizing here because you grouped us all together with your post). Figure out what it is that each of the "cheaters" have in common and by process of elimination, figure out which of those commonalities are negative. Then look for a mate that doesn't have those negative characteristics. Love doesn't die. It is ALWAYS there. Always. Unless you are referring to what some people think love is (sex, control, manipulation, abuse, etc.). When we begin a relationship, our brains produce more of certain hormones which make us "feel good". After being together over a period of time, the production of those hormones slows. It becomes easy for a person to get attention from another source and suddenly, the hormones kick into high gear again. Thus, producing those "feel good" sensations again. It's natural for us to want to feel good so we spend more time with the other source (3rd party). Some call this 'The Chase' and you can call it whatever you desire but it's how the human body works. And, on a final note, it is the "cheaters" choice to act on those feelings. Some of us do not act on them. I wish you the best, Officerdaddy, hope this helps you. **Hope this makes sense, I'm exhausted...lol.** Yeah, that excitement is hard wired into us. It comes from a desire to procreate the species. That's why we are intially attracted to someone. There is something about them that makes us view them as a potential mate. Love is from mental evolution as we try to rise above the beasts that we came from. Hell, eveolution is even apparent in our sex organs. When a female mentruates, her ass doesn't get all puffy so the males know whats up. She knows and can choose when she wants to reproduce at a time that she is more fertile with a male she thinks is best suited. Likewise with a man, the head on his wang is designed to remove the baby batter from women when they're doing the bedroom lambada. Can you honestly tell me that looks are the LAST thing you notice about a potential mate? Keep in mind your moral views on honesty when replying. Simple truth is that we are human. We are a species of animal. Love is an ideal we learn. We are not wired to mate for life. And don't give me that horsesh1t about the damned penguins, they all look alike so you can't tell which swimming chicken is porking which. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Oh, shut up Arse holes. Yes, yuo may have been cheeted on or seen a woman cheet but, that doesn't mean that we all do. Sue, some of us may suck and we may be brain ninjas sometimes but, so are some of you guys! So take that Dr. Ruth comment and shove it up your arse!! Sticks and stones Tinkerbell. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. Actually it is sexual advice. How many people complain about "emotional infidelity"? And sure you would tell him... |
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1. Come accross a LOT of money. 2. Be born with a ginormous donkey dong 3. Refer to option 1. or 2. Hope this helps.  I think some of the problem...with both men and women is that we look for "hotties" instead of hearts....why don't we start there? Physical attraction is a must...but it shouldn't be the only thing we see when looking at someone.
Totally agree. If a toothless, bearded hag(Jumping Jack Flash!)had a lot of money and wanted to spend it on me, she would totally win my heart. Just being honest Mrs. Moral Detective. |
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Marry her. Lol. Actually, Just listen to her. Be randomly kind, sweet and loving, generous too. umm... Well. Just be a gentleman. love her. make her feel appreceated. Hold her close when people are looking, and when they aren't. Suprise her with dinner, or a bath, or someing else that isn't really sexual that you both can share. Something that you wouldn't normally do. Spoil her occasionally. When she's in a bad mood, don't argue. Let her vent to you because, whether you are totally listining or not, she really appreciates it. This is (mostly) how I would like to be treated... I'm sure every other woman too. So basically you want an emotional punching bag? |
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its not hard to find them ,its hard to hold on to them 
Yeah, you keep them until they find a guy with more money than you or a bigger f*ckstick. |
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My suggestion would be not to generalize all women as cheaters. Most of us do NOT!!!! I can't and won't speak for all women but as for me- if you keep me happy, and I don't mean buy me things or have a "ginormous donkey dong," I am completely monogomous. Have you really looked at who you are as a person? maybe the love does not die but does not grow either. For a relationship to flourish the couple has to grow together. Learn about yourself and what you want in a woman and what kind of relationship you want and when you meet a woman you are interested in.....COMMUNICATE!!!!!!! thats right!!! talk to her- tell her what you want, your hopes, dreams and aspirations. What would make you happy in the relationship. Then ask her what she would want. Love is 100/100 not 50/50- if you are willing to give it your all- she will be too JMO Ok Dr. Ruth hold up. You just said you as long as a man can keep you happy that you will be commited. That implies that if he let you down that you would possibly stray. You also said that not all women are cheaters. What exactly is your point? You obiously can't say that your aren't unfaithful since that is contingent on your happiness level. Yeah, maybe some women are faithful, most aren't. Don't get me wrong. Men are douchebags too. The only difference is that men are more likely to admit an affair. Women take that sh1t with them to the grave. |
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Go to CHURCH Yeah, nothing but honest women that won't cheat or bleed you dry there. 
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1. Come accross a LOT of money.
2. Be born with a ginormous donkey dong 3. Refer to option 1. or 2. Hope this helps. |
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Topic:
Rancid
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RUBO SO HOE RUBIE RUBIE RUBIE SO HOE.. surprsied aren't you  yes i did listen to punk WAY WAY back in the day
WOOT! |
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Topic:
Rancid
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I was a big fan of And Out Come the Wolves as well, particularly "Roots, Radicals" I know this is going to receive some harsh criticism, but I always felt Rancid was a little over rated. It seems like Rancid and NOFX ascended to god-like status, while many other great bands were ignored in the scene. Well, they were more accessible to the mainstream. Also, Tim Armstrong is a very polific musician. I am sure you're familiar with his so stuff. Lol, the funny thing about Tim as a singer is that he doesn't actually "sing". |
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Yeah, I'll cuddle the back of her head while she's slobbin' the knob.
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I hate togetherness and openness  GTFO! 
oh yeah, that's what I told my ex! 
Shag, YOU'RE AWESOME DUDE! |
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Topic:
need a man
Edited by
Wacodude
on
Sat 01/24/09 12:50 PM
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Hmmm, unless mapquest lied to me you are about 76 miles away.
*never mind, this is an ooooooold post. |
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Topic:
Rancid
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That was a badass album. I also like Indestructable.
I get pumped when I crank up David Courtney. Alas, listening to them also makes me miss my hawk. |
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Topic:
Soak it in
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Here...just take the money. Don't shoot me! 
I know you keep your cash in your sock too, don't hold out on me! I'm CRAZY! |
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Topic:
Soak it in
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Arg, never mind.
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