This message is to all who seek new experiences this year. Hi, my name is Brenda but my signature name is Lavendarkissed. I am a native of Chicago,Il and have been living in the QC for about three years now. I wanted to meet and mingle with like minded people but I am not into the going to the club/bar activities so maybe this site will work perfect for me. Do you like to get together with friends hang out maybe go to the movies, out to dinner, bowling, weekend getaways. How about having some friends to help you celebrate an important event like your B-Day for instance. Well that is how I feel,so maybe we can become friends. Life is not all about a sexual relationship ecspecially after you've reach a certain age,let's say approaching 40. Man, it is almost here and I don't feel any older just wiser. Hit me up maybe we can start a group of friends and start meeting up and having some drama free fun. I am adventorous and spontaneous. I don't need to plan my calendar out weeks in advance, an approaching 40 joke LOL. Talk to you all soon ,be safe and keep God in the center of your heart.