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Land on Moon
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Organize monthly visits... any online booking plans of course...you said square km, right ? ![]() |
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Topic:
Land on Moon
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Organize monthly visits...
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Topic:
Have you paid for anyone?
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your thoughts what would you do...you really feel strongly about a person online...do they know ...maybe but don't know how strongly my feelings have been toward them
You don't have strong feelings towards them. You have worked yourself up to have strong emotions, and then chose to associate them with your perception of them. This is no different than someone watching a soap opera and believing the character they watch is the true personality of the actor, or the actor is no different morally, intellectually, spiritually, whateverally, than the character they portray. It's not real. It's in your head. The sad thing is it's common online. And sometimes it works for a while. Simply because both people are the delusional seeking the actor to fall in fake love with. Sometimes neither is the actor saying "here's a restraining order, psycho." So sometimes it works. Sometimes people build up the fantasy. Sometimes they then meet and continue the delusional fantasy. Unfortunately, reality always wins. The weaker the personality, the more the need for the fantasy, the longer it lasts, the more it hurts when reality wins. Those are my thoughts. And what I would do if I saw myself falling into this, is get out of it as fast as possible. Slap myself a couple of times and try to remove the vaseline of desperation, loneliness, and delusional emotional connection from the lenses of my perception. Or go to the search feature, find everyone and anyone close to me, then set up dates that keep me busy and away from the internet for as long as possible. Are you saying that when a person likes to add a little fantasy, a little zest, it's a weak personality ? I think it's creative...or else let's just go back to the cave...(which can be fun too...maybe, sometimes... ![]() |
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Ohh.. and that person you're in love with its not me is it? Because I know I am pretty irresistible.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() darn straight its you ![]() ![]() I understand the infatuation part ... do they know ...maybe but don't know how strongly my feelings have been toward them ... like enough to stay away... so I don't get hurt ... or think other wise of him in my own mind... he is and has been loved by many all his life ... so that kind of love as friendships is constant in his life ... like I said I just stay away most of the time so I don't get hurt ... now that might sound weird ... but I don't know any other way to hold back my feelings for him ...so they don't go deeper then a friendship love ... has this worked ...not really I still feel the same ![]() I'm having troubles understanding...for now it's friendly interactions...? Maybe the person feels the same about you and with you running away to "not get hurt" maybe you "hurt" or "confuse" the person... I think you can have strong feelings online...but it can only seriously evolve one way or the other once you meet. Once you meet all that can be like : OMG - No ![]() OMG -yes.. ![]() (the online thing can only be a "foreplay", build trust, etc.. I think) |
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Texas...
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Topic:
2KidsMoms Hideout - part 5
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Uh huh...it's that time of year,again. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Love Uuuuus.Everybody have a good weekend! ![]() ![]() Heya Beautifull ! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() all of a sudden I miss Texas... ![]() |
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...I hope I have not hurt anybodies feelings today...I'm better off to go to sleep now..
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Edited by
Maxisu
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Wed 11/04/15 03:28 PM
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it was a joke... |
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Topic:
Hi
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Hi there !
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Topic:
Need to know
Edited by
Maxisu
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Wed 11/04/15 01:01 PM
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Lol...yep some girls are worse than me....blocking that fast might be a little bit hasty...but again; I think that is because there are quite many spammers.
and Joe...c'mon you DO probably get more replies then he does....(Joe got puppies on his profile picture !!) ![]() ![]() |
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you seem fun...and I'm very disappointed you are not Prince Charming...
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some do...had one send me a message today saying " I don't get it" proof positive he read it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Topic:
Need to know
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Eliminate this from your blurb: "Well that's about the best I can do for now. If you want to know something just ask. I'm easy to talk to." It is pointless and sort of lame. Other than that, it looks good. ![]() Although I agree with the others as well...I agree with this too. Even if it might be unfair but most of us girls get lots of mails so we might not take much time initiating contact. For me I usually also don't answer simple "hi, how are you doing today" .."I like your profile" unless it is someone I've read from on the forums. Scammers have also evolved to putting more than one picture ...so putting on some less "clean" pics...with friends or in different situations is a plus too...in my opinion. I personally answer profile specific questions...at least out of respect for those that really show they've taken the time to actually read my profile..... Sooo...in the end it all depends on your standard too. I'm glad I am a woman in this case... ![]() |
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Hi everyone, Hi John
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Topic:
just a tad needy or clingy
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just a tad needy or clingy I think you are much better off if you are with someone whose 'nature' you enjoy. You are not going to change anyone, if they are needy now, that will get worse. If it is not one of those things you can live with... book Canada, book. words of wisdom ![]() at least this makes me think of the qualities of certain people ! |
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....ok...let's talk....
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Can't believe I forgot these songs for Halloween. King Diamond - Halloween http://youtu.be/1-9uuxpoaZA Helloween - Halloween http://youtu.be/z1mpS7uaecg Ha,ha...still rockin ! Happy Halloween ! ![]() ![]() |
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Topic:
Relocate yes or no?
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Done it once. It didn't take. I am still a true believer. Once I figure out how to make Belgium (or something) work, I will leap in a heartbeat! I suggest you come on over a little more and figure if you really like Belgium.... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 6 month here 6 month in Spain or Cali...:-) that would be perfect !!! |
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Topic:
Relocate yes or no?
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i don't know...maybe. probably. or not. (this isn't some kind of covert offer is it?) ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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