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Topic:
Time for Change
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What in your life needs to change?
For me, my job. |
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Edited by
GLG2009
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Thu 01/23/14 11:31 PM
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 cheers to all you beautiful strong woman  good luck in life.
Good Luck to you LowRange, I truly wish you the best. Make changes, and don't be afraid. 
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But I can't move on if he's still showin around..How can I accept the truth we're not in relationship anymore and he wanna just become a friend. He lost his love but not me. Isn't unfair? there has to be clear boundaries,,,friends from a distance its not fair if it interrupts your ability to move on,,, Thanks! :) "there has to be clear boundaries,,,friends from a distance" That's what he thinks he is doing now. |
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anit0128 started this topic, ending with a plead to "Guys,, sometimes think about your EX's feelings please!!" How about us thinking about our feelings. Right. How about my feelings? You don't have to be friends with him if you don't want to. No one can force you into anything. If you don't want to be his friend, just tell him that, and make him stay away from you. What you allow is what will continue. True. Put your feelings 1st! You tried, it didn't work. Don't be stuck on stupid (insert his name here) lol. |
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TRUE THAT. Im fine ,forgiving, trying to help him we have kids togather I will always be a friend ,though it is hard at times,I wish him happiness,although hes been heart broken dumped by another its hard to emotionally nurse someone that did the same to me,but I cant help but feel bad for him wish i didn't. LowRange, I feel bad for you. You are being drained by someone who didn't want your heart when he had it, but after his heart was hurt he camed to you for a bandaid.
Sorry to be so that way, but someone put it to me that way. Changed my life! |
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Sometimes it's brutal to be a woman.
Agree
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Tell him you don't want to be friends, not everyone can handle being "just friends" with an ex, I know I couldn't do it. I tried one time, it worked for him, but not for me. Yeah, I'm not good at shutting off my emotions either, I respect those who can, but it's impossible for me to do that. impossible for me too. Now, I value my heart! |
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TRUE THAT. Im fine ,forgiving, trying to help him we have kids togather I will always be a friend ,though it is hard at times,I wish him happiness,although hes been heart broken dumped by another its hard to emotionally nurse someone that did the same to me,but I cant help but feel bad for him wish i didn't. LowRange, I feel bad for you. You are being drained by someone who didn't want your heart when he had it, but after his heart was hurt he camed to you for a bandaid. |
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Tell him you don't want to be friends, not everyone can handle being "just friends" with an ex, I know I couldn't do it. I tried one time, it worked for him, but not for me. |
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Edited by
GLG2009
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Thu 01/23/14 10:59 PM
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anit0128 started this topic, ending with a plead to "Guys,, sometimes think about your EX's feelings please!!"
How about us thinking about our feelings. |
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Hmmmm I just happen to see this as im sitting here having coffee and looking over at my ex husband sleeping on my couch. Oh my. How YOU feeling? |
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He must have done something to be a EX.
We women go through many changes before we get to this EX point. Once you are there, stay there. If he is not trying to be un-EX. He is just taking up your new man space. |
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sometimes hurt is a two way street there could be an assumption of forgiveness if they didnt know their partner very well my ex hurt me by being unfaithful but I forgave it long ago and EXCEPT for that shortcoming, he was actually a pretty great friend and I chose not to just drop him ,, we remain close emotionally and I think thats healthy if two people can manage to do it,,, No disrespect, but, The original post does not sound like she wants to remain close emotionally or think it is healthy. She is not handling it. Sounds like she pissed that he still wants to be her friend. Maybe I'm reading this wrong. Hey anit0128, How are YOU feeling? Ok, this was late. If you feel like that, don't allow him to be your friend, You end it. |
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sometimes hurt is a two way street there could be an assumption of forgiveness if they didnt know their partner very well my ex hurt me by being unfaithful but I forgave it long ago and EXCEPT for that shortcoming, he was actually a pretty great friend and I chose not to just drop him ,, we remain close emotionally and I think thats healthy if two people can manage to do it,,, No disrespect, but, The original post does not sound like she wants to remain close emotionally or think it is healthy. She is not handling it. Sounds like she pissed that he still wants to be her friend. Maybe I'm reading this wrong. Hey anit0128, How are YOU feeling? |
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Why is it some EX's still act very close to you like nothing happened, like he/she didn't hurt you, like it's still ok to be just friends!? Guys,, sometimes think about your EX's feelings please!! Because its allowed. ex's are ex's for a reason. |
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