I think intimacy has reached a point that it will never come back from, objectification. Movies have made Love out to be this cliche thing that will never really happen... 2 people have to be in complete agreement that they want each other, you can't just say that you don't like somebody right now and later down the line thing they're actually the love of your life.. it happens.. but it's more likely to get struck by lightning twice, why do I start talking about love? cause sexuality topics don't include it, and an aspect of sex is making love, yes.. you can have meaningless sex and it'll feel the same, but that goes to show that nobody values what its worth anymore, its just a "good time" I can rant about this all day, but I'll just make a quick addition to the "sexual power over others"

"if you do not have sex with me, you don't really love me" the sick twisted method used by both guys AND girls to get their partner to partake in sexual acts to which they do not feel ready for.... if that person needs sex to realize you love them, well.... hmmmmmmm

have a great night.