Actually you were speechless, my friend...lol

Has Letterman contacted you yetÉ You are funny

Oh yes....a lot of insincere losers DO hang out here

oh,my..you were so rude..so I erased the ìn in insinsincerity I actually thought you were being nice...forgive me.
you were being snide...whyÉ...be nice if you gave your side..like I said..I,m not a man-basher
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thanks..I know it works both ways...but it still hurts to get lied to

I`m not a man-basher..but...I swear...the number of insincere men I have met on these sites....then...duuuuhh...it dawned on me.....they are single for a reason...yes....also works both ways...so hi to all you other losers out thrre

Yes...there are a few of us on here I guess

Thank you for the kind words.

I have made a couple of friends, but nothing long-lasting. I thought I had..met a guy on here..we messaged a lot..he was the one who brought up the subject of a future together...he phoned or messaged me almost daily. we live far from each other..after a few months, we met in person..sparks flew for both of us, (at least he said he felt that way)..we met again in July..after that I would hardly hear from him..I told him I felt he had lost interest in me, and he denied it. He makes no attempt to contact me now, so I know he lied. I am hurt that he could be so dishonest & insincere..there are a lot of people like that on these sites..which would explain why their mates dumped them? But I am still optimistic...they aren't all like that..at least I hope so.

No, we've checked our settings..and pre-arranged with each other to IM

My friend & I are having this problem frequently when we want to message each other..on each other's profile, it doesn't show that you are on-line, and so you can't make the request of the other person...this has been happening a lot lately..and it's very frustrating

I didn't know it was possible to spy on someone on this site..and why or how would they do that?

Today I received an e-mail from a friend on this site, and it showed he was on-line, so I clicked to instant message him..he was trying to answer, I could hear him clicking..but it kept showing.."waiting for his window to open"..Then after waiting a few minutes..I checked his profile..it didn't show him on-line, but I could hear him clicking as he was trying to get through...This has happened before too, once he was trying to get through to me, and when I checked, he was on my "blocked users" list..I had never blocked him, and no-one else has access to my computer, so I don't know why that happened..I unblocked him, and we were able to message then..Could someone look into this problem, please..as it is very frustrating..This is our easiest way of contacting each other , and both of us are concerned with this problem.

love it

oh, I've dropped him & sent him an e-mail to let him know I'm on to him funny thing, he said there was a "crazy Lady" who kept popping up when he was IMing on here..now I know why, and who's the crazy one

I know there are people who do that,but it still surprises me when it happens to me, and my faith in human nature takes another blow..which I don't need at this already low point in my life.
I'm finding that this guy is probably married, and on this site to amuse himself and perk up his own pathetic life and ego by preying on me and I'm sure many others.